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writes:Hi i wrote a question in a while ago saying that i had a problem because i was very confused as i'm striaght but i am attracted to transexuals. Last time i wrote in i sed i was finding myself wanking over transexual porn and hardly ever over straight porn. Now this hasnt changed and i find myself wanking over transexual porn at least once a day now sometimes more. I am 18 and havent lost my virginity yet so i'm gettin worried that my attraction to transexuals is stopping me losing my v. I have told one of my closest friends and thankfully he hasnt told anyone and he thought it was disgusting and sed to me well doesnt that mean your gay and i told him no am straight. He started saying well if you like transexuals that means you woudnt mind sucking c*ck or being bummed and ect and when i thought about it i wudnt mind doing them things even though i havent lost my v yet but i sed i would never do it with a lad just transexuals. So any advice would be welcome as i cant see where things are going to change ?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): Put a lock on your bedroom door!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirst of all thanks for all your responses people :) but i do have to say the anonymous reader at the top, the female writer has got it spot on i think because i am not gay i dont fancy men and would never do anything sexual with any man but at the same time i find i moman with a dick a turn on. I have told my mate about your responses and he does believe am not gay he just thinks i have got a weird fetish :P but anyway something bad has really happened and i need alot of advice here. Nothing has changed when it comes to masturbating i am still wanking over trannsexual porn but this time when i was wanking my mum walked in my room and caught me watching it, I have my pc in my room and listen to it through headphones so couldn't here her open my door. I was lying on my bed wanking over a man sucking this trannsexual's cock and being fucked in the arse. Of course i shot out of my bed i dont know if my mum seen the pc screen coz she ran out the room but i think she would have seen the transexual. I havent spoken to my mum properly anyway for about 3 days now i dont know what to do because its really embarrasing and it makes its worse that it was transexual porn i was wanking over i fear my mum will think am gay now so any advice you can give me would be so much help thanx ....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): dude don't listen to these dude saying that you are gayif you like transexuals that means you like transsexuals because if you were gay you would like regular men not trans men so and there really isn't a name for people that like transsexuals because you aren't gay because you don't like men you may like a penis but that doesn't make you gay just like a woman liking a vagina doesn't make her a lesbian.you aren't Bi-sexual because that would one again mean you would have to like men not just the penis but the man himself and woman also and since you like woman but are also attracted transexuals that just means you like woman but the idea of a woman with a penis is a turn on to you nothing more.so i would say you straight but with a curious side, so you aren't gay because they look like woman but just know that though they may look like woman they are still men, i know its confusing but you have to think about what you want and if you are religious you have to think about that also because that is a man under all that work, heheI HOPE THIS HELPS
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reader, RobL +, writes (7 September 2009):
 What you're attracted to has no effect on when you'll lose your virginity; only when you meet the right person will you lose it, I'm nearly 21 and still haven't lost it, so don't worry, you've still got three years to go before you catch me ;) (And that's assuming I get some within the next year!)---Merky said:"This means your attracted to guys, your gay."Bisexual not an option then, is it? They do exist, you know, it's not just black and white, yes or no. There's greyscale and maybe in there. For instance I would do things with another guy (if I didn't have a girlfriend :P) but I'd never love one or marry one like I will with a girl.---All in all, what you masturbate to is your own business, if nobody knows what kind of porn you watch, how could it possibly have an effect on your virginity?You just keep wanking to whatever you like, and sooner or later someone'll come along for you to share that moment with, don't sweat it.~Rob
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reader, Merky +, writes (6 September 2009):
"He started saying well if you like transexuals that means you woudnt mind sucking c*ck or being bummed and ect and when i thought about it i wudnt mind doing them things even though i havent lost my v yet but i sed i would never do it with a lad just transexuals."This means your attracted to guys, your gay. You like penis. You just like penis being disguised as a woman to make you feel more secure, but what ever way you look at it, your gay.Any straight guy would shudder at the thought of anything like that, you admitting you would do these things just proves that you are in fact gay. Sorry to be so blunt, but it's the truth, I'm sure you already knew that before posting here though didn't you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): "He started saying well if you like transexuals that means you woudnt mind sucking c*ck or being bummed and ect and when i thought about it i wudnt mind doing them things even though i havent lost my v yet but i sed i would never do it with a lad just transexuals."You sir, are gay. Proof of concept. Any real straight guy shudders at the thought of anything like that.
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reader, Perspicacious +, writes (6 September 2009):
You are still young, and haven't lost your virginity because you haven't met the right person for you yet. Only you can know who it is you are attracted to, and if that is girls then I'm sure you will find someone special soon in the normal way.
If you are genuinely attracted exclusively to transexuals then the chances of meeting someone special are less likely unless you take steps to do so. There are plenty of internet sites dedicated to transgendered people and those that like them, and pubs / clubs that people in the transgender community go to in order to socialise and meet people.
Transexuality makes labels like "gay" and "straight" pretty useless - they only work as long as you presume there are only two genders that someone can possibly be or be attracted to.
Follow the path that is right for you, be happy, and sooner or later you will meet someone that is right to lose your virginity with.
Good luck!
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