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Why does losing your virginity hurt?

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Question - (21 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend started having sex the other night.Hes not a virgin and is experienced. But im a virgin and he got in alil but it hurt so bad i made him stop. But I wanted to try again but i dont want it to hurt. Why did it hurt so bad?!?!? Am i still a virgin. because he did penetrate.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009):

make sure you have plenty of foreplay, i just lost my virginity a few weeks ago the 1s time hurt but tried again and it wsnt so bad. it will hurt for the first few times until your body is used to it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009):

it always hurts the first time...

did the two of you have much foreplay? were you turned on? were you 'wet'? if not it would hurt especially bad as there would hav been too much friction. if you were though, dont worry it usually takes maybe between 2-10 times before it stops hurting so keep at it, im sure your boyfriend will be patient.. lucky your first time was with your boyfriend imagine how much worse you'd feel with a random guy.

dont stress sweetie im sure in a little while you'll be loving it.. get excited!! :)

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