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Archived questions from: March, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How do I know the difference between gut instinct and paranoia?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - Hi all. This question has two parts. Should you ever ask your BF if he finds another woman attractive and if he would ever fvck her? I asked my BF tonight if he would fvck this other woman we both know and he said not while he was with me. T...

I need to change my thinking, my attitude. How can I make myself into a better person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - I'm 32 years old and have a horrible personality it seems. I'm one of the most kindhearted people you'd ever meet, always put others before myself (I'm in the medical field actually) but I have such a negative hateful attitude. I want to change b...

Do you think I've made the right decision to not attend this wedding, where my Bf will be the Best man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - this may seem like a minor situation but it's stressing me out and im a grad student so extra stress is bad. A few months ago I had a falling out with my ex flatmates who are a couple. My boyfriend took their side which upset me. I posted on herea...

Why does my long term Gf still keep registering on dating sites? It's affecting our relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

30 March 2015 (M) - I've caught my long term girlfriend many times registered and active on different dating sites. I am not able to get to the root of it, because I always end up defending myself over extremely minor mistakes I made years ago (like being 10 minu...

How can I get through this mountain of pressure? A new baby, difficult birth, my mother died unexpectedly and my husbane and my sister have betrayed me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Please help! Hubby and I have been having marriage problems since the birth of my 2nd child and a difficult pregnancy and long recovery time (8 weeks) from an planned c section which ended up being an emergency as the surgeon made a medical error ...

My fiance never wants to have sex. How can I improve this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - My fiance never wants to have sex. I ask him all the time why and he tells me he is extremely self conscious of his penis. He won't let me touch his penis if I try to grab him. I know he loves me but I can't seem to fix this issue. I try to ...

His (now pregnant) one night stand is causing angst for us. Do I stand by my man and help him through this difficult time or leave?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Please help. My boyfriend of 5 years and i took a break. During this time he had a one night stand with a condom. Two months later we started going to counseling and everything seemed to be working out. He even proposed marriage and our...

Am I moving on too fast with the girl from my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

30 March 2015 (M) - So about a month ago I was cheated on and ended a 5 year relationship. Just the other week I reconnected with a girl from my past and we really hit it off. I'm a little uneasy because I don't know if I am moving on too quick. I really never fel...

My Ex cheated and then he left me. Why can't I move on from this set-back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Why can't I move on? I am in college two months ago my ex cheated and left. Now I am so alone in college and it's like I enjoy being sad because today I found myself crying and it seems he's fine. I cry the most when I think about how he so ...

My best friend is a guy. I like to be honest about this to any guy I want to date. Does this scare off guys I want to date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - Hi all, thanks for reading. I seem to have an issue with dating because my best friend is a guy. We dated a few years back, decided that we weren't good in a relationship, so we became good friends. He is also married now. My dilemma i...

Will this age difference be a problem in my new relationship with a co-worker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

30 March 2015 (M) - I have just entered a relationship with a Co worker. We have both come out of bad relationships in the past. We both love each other and make each other very happy. We are considering moving in together soon. She has a young daughter who I g...

He loves porn more than he loves me. Is it normal to be so upset about this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 3 years, and the whole of our relationship he has never been able to have an orgasm during intercourse. He says it was the same with his previous partners and it's not just me. But he is the only per...

Help me to move on after the he violated my trust

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Recently I split with my partner of 2.5 years. We split last August for 3 months and reconciled in October under the circumstance that we were completely honest about what had happened since we split, had it all out cards on the tables I completely ...

We've been dating 4 months and I have taken him back after finding he'd been chatting with other girls and his ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Hey, I'm looking for advice no a current situation with my boyfriend. We're both 23 We've been dating for 4 months now. The start of the second month I realized he lied to me about a nude photo of his friend but cast forward I got over that as she s...

If he's engaged surely he should just admit it to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I've had my suspicions when my partner has been away, I caught him texting someone Xmas day, he then replies in person i don't know anyone with that name, when he went I done some fb searching found friends in common with people he lived with, ...

Is he stringing me along or is he serious about having a relationship with me? I miss him so much.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Hi all, I really need advise, I can't stop thinking about this guy. I've known him and have been out with him and apparently he says we are still together. He lives elsewhere now since leaving for a job. and we havent really seen each other. We ...

What are the signs when a man has serious intentions to marry? How can I be sure he's serious about us?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - How will I know if a man has the intention to marry me? My boyfriend of almost 2 years, has at some point said he wouldn't want to marry again. When we broke up and wanted to get back together, I pointed this to him and he said he changed his ...

Soon we'll be LDR. How can this relationship be strengthened so I don't stress about cheating and his reactions online when we have a disagreement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - Been seeing this guy for almost 2 years now, and we weren't facebook friends until after 10 month, not until I realized it would also be nice to somewhat "show off and basically show recognition for this guy that I love". Long story short, at 12 m...

He was my first boyfriend. 11 months together. Then it ended badly. What help would help me deal with all the hurt I feel over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - 2 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I am struggling so badly, and Ive almost gone to see a psychologist. He was my first boyfriend; he was 26 I was 24. We were together for 11 months. He persued me in the beginning and even though he was t...

Divorced for 2 years now. Have an amazing new guy in my life. So why can't I deal with dating and decision making? What is wrong that I feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I got divorced 2 years ago, I wanted it and my ex didn't. He absolutely did nothing but just crying for 1 year. I couldn't take his family making decisions for us any more. He is 49 I am 34. It's been 2 years now and I feel extremely guilty...

How can I calm my sexual urges and lessen my need to think about sex constantly ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I'm a 21 year old female from a religious background and a virgin. I'm not supposed to date or have premarital sex. I'm not even supposed to masturbate but being a human I do anyways. But recently,that hasn't been helping me suppress my sexual ...

His status is set as "single," how would you handle that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - Hey guys. Please help me. If you had been in an exclusive relationship with someone for almost seven months when you found their OKCupid profile was still active (last logged in yesterday afternoon) with its status set to single, how would you ...

Am I doing something wrong in this relationship or is she just "over" me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

28 March 2015 (M) - Well, I met this woman about a week ago at a friends party. We have been sending messages over email this week. I have told her a lot about things I am doing and she responded. I actually said I was sorry for sending a long message and that...

Why is my ex letting me know that she's stalking my social media?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

28 March 2015 (M) - I recently broke up with my gf of about a year. Throughout the relationship she was frequently insecure and jealous, but when she wasn't her love was like the sun. Eventually her jealously and insecurities made her angry, mean, and distrustful ...

Ladies, your possible reaction if you surmised, during sex, that a guy was a virgin then would you stop having sex or what?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

28 March 2015 (M) - Hi Cupid, I wanna paint a pictute here for woman and hear what they think. Pleeeeeeeease be brutally honest, no euphemism. If you (a woman) were in your twenties and liked some guy, just like, not a romeo and juliette love story, you've know...

My boyfriend is using my flaws against me, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months, and we are in a long distance relationship (5 hours drive apart), at the start of our relationship everything was perfect, I generally felt he was the one! We had so much in common, but as the m...

He left because after I had our children he was not attracted to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - I'm sitting here pretty emotional tonight. You probably get questions having to do with this subject often, but how can a young woman work on body confidence? When I was only 19 I gave birth to beautiful twin baby girls. I had a normal pregnancy...

I have mixed feelings and don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for almost 2 years and have been sort of watching him. I have him under my phone plan so I monitor his calls and texts. He friended an ex on FB and that didn't sit too well with me so we had a fight. He refused to ...

This boy who likes me is spreading rumours.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

28 March 2015 (F) - This guy at school has liked me for a while and is constantly asking me out. I have explained to him that I'm not looking to have a relationship at the moment but he is insisting he walks me home everyday. Yesterday he was jealous of me and my guy b...

Am I crazy or does she like me more than a friend? Don't want to ruin a great friendship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

27 March 2015 (M) - I'm a guy who has historically had more female friends than male, I feel recently however I may be misreading a friends intentions when they ask to go on walks at night together and stuff of that nature. We see each other a lot as we share a house ...

So confused. Can you help clarify what to do? my rebound Gf has been very good to me. My ex wants me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - I've gotten myself into a horrible bind. The love of my life and I split up in November. While on the rebound, I made a poor, quick decision to jump into another relationship while I was still hurting over my ex. I wound up really enjoying ...

Toxic work place? Co-workers underminging me. How can I face them on Monday? How should I behave?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - I'd really like some advice. I work with a lady called “X” who i thought i got on well with. We text each other outside of work and i've given her a lift home etc She's older than me so i sort of looked to her as a mother figure in a way. ...

My Dentist: I just "feel" he's the "one"- Does he not want me back as his patient because he wants to ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - I need some opinions to find out if I'm on to something or imagining it...I'm so confused!! Last year I was looking to get my teeth straightened and I used Facebook for opinions and many people recommend this 1 particular dentist - Unfortunately ...

He's really trying to do all the right things. But my jealously is the problem. How can I stop being this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - I've had problems in the past with my boyfriend speaking to other girls but in like sexual ways "hey sexy", he was speaking to girls he's slept with in the past, a girl sent him a photo and his reply was "now that is sexy" .. This caused a massive ...

He has a Gf. He also told me he loves me. I have a crush on him. What should I do ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - Last month (February) I told my male best friend that I have developed feelings for him. For a while we flirted but he had a girlfriend. Yesterday however we went out to the park and he told me that he loves me when he still has a girlfrie...

Should I leave him or I find some way to cope with the truth? I have a small behind and he likes a big behind. I can't change that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. In order to understand my question I think it is best if I explain our past in a nutshell. We met in middle school, lost contact, reunited over myspace and began having sex for about 3 months u...

He's trying to get over his gambling problem. Would this be why he is seeming to be so stressed all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3530 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - So I've currently been with my husband for 4 years (married Just over a year) and it seems we've hit a patch in our marriage. He goes out most weekends and is gone the whole weekend with his friends. Neither of us make the effort to spend time...

How I found a Possible Solution to Retroactive Jealousy and Trust Issues with my Significant Other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

27 March 2015 (M) - Before all the feminazi's here jump on me this is what happened exactly. Their were no assumptions on my part or misinterpretations on my end. She lied to me and misrepresented herself as to not to lose me and put herself in a bad light. This ...

I do still love my Gf. Yet I'm having feelings for another. Should I talk about this to my Gf?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

27 March 2015 (M) - I am in a relationship of 5 years and I'm in my final year of university so I am away from my girlfriend weeks at a time. Recently we have been arguing more frequently and we both recognise the spark is going out and so are currently trying to ignit...

What else? Tried anti-depressants, counselling and contraceptive pill to try to control side affects of heavy periods. Any further suggestions before I see Dr next week?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I have had some great advice on here before relating to periods and anxiety - people suggested fish oil and cutting out caffeine and these have really helped me a lot - as a result I am nowhere near as anxious as I was. However, I won...

Have feelings for former co-worker. Is it meant to be? And I am married to another man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - i am married. it seemed to be ok until I met a guy at work. the attraction grew for past years despite my attempts to stop it. few weeks ago I quit as a last ditch effort to save my marriage. I felt he felt the same about me, although he never sai...

How to overcome the sudden void left behind through my decision to have my very loved sick cat euthanized?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I know this is not a relationship question or even a question but right now my world is just in ruins. I have decided to euthanize my baby cat. He was very sick and I did not have the money to make him better. I feel so guilty. I stayed with...

Some friends have fallen out with me over my decision to date a guy they do not like. What should I consider in all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - A group of close friends I have had have recently fallen out with me due to my decision to be with someone that they don't like. I've had an on and off relationship with a guy who I consider to be the love of my life f...

He's 18 and I like him, but he seems to like a girl too. Should I give up on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

26 March 2015 (M) - Should I give up or keep fighting for this this wonderful guy? A month ago I’ve met this wonderful 18 year old German guy. Lets call him A. Theres also this girl, lets call her B. B used to have a crush on me, she doesn’t know I’m gay - o...

He's been on my mind nonstop. Is it up to him to ask me out? What else can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - Theres this guy I have known since middle school hes incredibly handsome. Well were both about 22 and i cant stop thinking about him. I would be fine but he comes to my job at least twice a week!! and sometimes i tell him to go away in since i'...

Don't want to lose my friend. Yet what is so wrong in dating my friend's ex-girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

26 March 2015 (M) - I'll just go straight to the question. What is so wrong in dating my friend's ex-girlfriend? I mean they are no longer together for 3years now. We both want to go for it,i can bet on that but its just as if we should never cross. She has been m...

Should I really go through with surgery to correct my breasts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - Hello everyone glad I found a place I could receive some help. Has anyone here ever gotten plastic surgery, specifically a boob job? My problem is very personal to me. I found out at a young age that my breasts have a deformity. This has always ...

Are my constant thoughts about my BF cheating based on truth or my own fears?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - Hello DC. I have a question about trust. My BF and I have been together a couple of years. It is a good relationship and we still have great chemistry. He has cheated in a previous relationship. Not ours. He has always been up front with me...

He thinks that someone who is bisexual can't be faithful. Do I tell him I'm bisexual?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - Hi all, So, I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. He's wonderful, and I wouldn't change a thing about our relationship but there's one thing he doesn't know about me: I'm bisexual. I've known since I was fourteen, but it just has...

About Pornography: are my thoughts about women who like pornography accurate? Or simplistic generalizations? Or incorrect assumption?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

24 March 2015 (M) - This is just a general question about something I've wondered about. Its safe to say that men who like porn come from all walks of life. But what kind of woman likes it or at least accepts it within a relationship? Often I'll read commen...