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writes:Hello,i met this guy about 4 months ago. everything was going well. Until his mom died. After that he is in charge of all the affairs related, at the same time he is going to be retired soon and he is an executive and has a lot to do at work, and after that it is Christmas time. He explained that he needs a break and distance to do all the jobs. i said fine. but did not know the exact meaning of it. after a few weeks without any contact from him, i send him a text and mentioned "is it over" I went to his house. and we talked and he said maybe. i was not clear about a break , and i was so mad with him not contacting me. I mentioned to him that( it is over text )was just for myself , so this way am not waiting for your call. he said that he did not know he has caused me to be in pain . Since he mentioned he was shocked by text, i told him that i did put you in pain , so i menitoned that we are equal now. I left his house while kissing good bye. He also mentioned that "I am not going to call you"considering the fact that he is really busy, i am not going to contact him , waiting for him to do so. and honestly do not know where am i standing right now. thanks for your help.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 October 2012):
 you have no relationship with this guy
IF he contacts you, it might be for sex...
A man that is into a woman and wants to be with her is NEVER too busy... this I have learned...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2012): But he was clear about a break, even if you weren't! Looks like he broke up with you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2012): He is not into you. YOu need to move on, if he truely loved you and wanted to be with you, he would make the time. Sounds like you are doing all the chasing, kiss this relationship goodbye and find someone willing to invest himself in a relationship with you.
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