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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am married and in relationship with a married lover (we love each other) since before she got married a year back. After her marriage we have had numerous problems and now situation is that I don't trust her anymore due to she took me too much for granted and lied several times even after giving many chances. More than this she just doesn't my feelings even if it's some small request (non physical) and looks her comfort and interest level all the time. I have lost trust in her but can't avoid her due to we work together closely in my small business. I have no feelings left for her and told the same to her too but she is hell bent and trying to get back to me once again with a promise that she will be transparent and honest hence forth. She loves me I know that for sure as her husband is not of her type and she had to marry him because of family reasons.I am thoroughly disturbed and its affecting my health and work. How should be my behavior with her from here on? I know all moral implications hence would expect practical advise from matured people only. Thanks for reading this. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2012): You said you love each other, yet in another paragraph you say you have no feelings for her....The fact that you have come on here with your problem is that you do have feelings for her. She isn't leaving her husband, you were her bit on the side. Same old cliche Im afraid and no doubt she is having sex with him. You still ok with that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2012): She lied about her relationship with her husband to gain morally & financially, always gave a different picture tillthe time I could find out.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (9 December 2012):
 I always get a kick out of it when two people WHO ARE CHEATING ON THEIR PARTNERS come on here with a question about TRUST!!!!!
Good luck.....
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2012): You have two choices. Either you fire her or you quit. If you can't do either, well you made your bed you lie in it. The only other advice I can offer is to get some Xanax for your health if you can't resolved the issue by terminating her or you resigning. At least Xanax will keep you calm. Best wishes.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2012): Could you explain on why you dont trust her? What has she done?
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