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*onfusedAnna
writes:I have been with my boyfriend since High School, we broke up and became friends during my last two years of High School so we started dating other people. When i started my first year in college he was not going to school so he would come to my school and hang with me when i was free, at the time he had a Girlfriend. One day he was at my school and we were talking under a tree and he tried to kiss me I tried to push him off but he said he wouldn't stop trying until i kissed him so after trying to fight him off i eventually kissed him. Kissing him brought back a lot of the feelings i had for him. So for months before he started working he would come to my school and we would kiss but it never went further. So i started to feel really bad about kissing him. One day i was chilling with my friend at school and i received a call from his girlfriend and she was very upset she was asking me all types of questions. So i decided to try and keep my distance, he would still come to my school but I would only wave and go. Couple weeks before my first year was finished he called informing me that he broke up with his girlfriend. At first i never reacted, i just said ok. When summer was almost over we started to see each other again, her started to come to my mother's business place to chill with me. At the begining of my second year we had sex and that was my first time having sex too.. Then some weeks after my second time having sex with him he placed a title to it all... He started to call me his Girlfriend. Recently he has been having some family problem he told me all about it. Last night he was very angry about some stuffs with his family and i was trying to calm him down. This morning i woke up and saw three miss calls from him at two in the morning so i texted him asking if he was ok, he didn't reply. I figured he just needed space so i waited until 5pm today to call him, I called three times and got no answer and i texted and he didn't reply. I called him again sometime around 7 and this time i privated my number and he answered. He told me his phone was off all day and that he would call me later when he was finished talking to his neighbor. He lied to me, because if his phone was off it wouldn't have rang and then went to voicemail all three times i called. Then he lied to me about talking to his neighbor because he texted me tell me he was on his way home forgetting that he told me he was home.Do you think i should confront him about lying?Do you think he hiding something?Do you think he could be cheating?Do you think he loves me? He told me he did many times.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (9 December 2012):
 He *is* a cheater. Why was he kissing on you while he was with his girlfriend? You know he's a cheater!
He's a liar. He ignored your calls until he got busted when you hid his number.
He doesn't love you. He pressured you to kiss him and kept pushing the issue even when you were trying to push him off. That is a lack of love and respect.
This guy is bad news. Of course he could be cheating! You re-started your relationship with him cheating on his girlfriend with you.
Doesn't matter what he's hiding because you already know he's lying to you. Are you going to put up with this?
He doesn't love you. A cheater's words are worthless. Consider what he did to his girlfriend behind her back when he was pressuring you to make out with him. What's to stop him from doing that to some other girl behind YOUR back? He's got a taste for it!
I say break up with him and NEVER date a cheater ever again. Don't be a doormat and let someone push themselves onto you physically when you don't want to.
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