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30-35,
*nsomnia710
writes:This girl is someone from my class which I now know for 2 months(I am 20 and she is 18 btw). In the beginning there wasn't much going on, but when we met each other we had some nice conversations and she even was a bit more okay around me. Then we haven't seen each other for like 3 weeks, after this I asked her once to have a drink with me. She said she couldn't because she had to work (she did look at the clock though and it seemed she really had to go), the day after I asked again but this time she had to go somewhere else. This is where I thought she wasn't interested in me but I'll get into that later. After that I didn't approach her that often anymore because I thought she'd loose interest. After a while we grew a bit apart from each other. It felt like the process of knowing each other had to start over again. I do know that she's a shy girl. Whenever I ask her something she doesn't really prolong the conversation. We sometimes do have eye contact for a serious moment, but either I or she then looks away. Sometimes I do see her looking at me, but I don't really pay attention to that.Whenever she talks with others she seems relaxed, but whenever she is with me it's awkward. So I decided not to give her any attention anymore since I couldn't handle the situation. 1-2 weeks afterwards she sended me a friend request on Facebook (I know it may not mean anything but we had all of this weird stuff happening and she clearly knew this too). So I accepted the request, I texted her and she replied. But on my last question I didn't get any respond (weird huh). I didn't seek much behind it. We had another weird week. So I messaged her again, then she replied 2-3 times. On my very last message, she didn't reply either. So now I am like, wth what does she want.She doesn't know how to behave when she is around me. My friend told me the moment I walk by, she was acting a bit weird swaying with her head in class on 1 moment. We now even have days were we act like we don't really notice each other, while I do like her but I don't want to burn my butt.My question is, why is she acting weird and so nervous around me while she can have a normal conversation near other guys/people.
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reader, BalloonBoy  +, writes (9 December 2012):
Hello Insomnia710
I am a little bit older so you may find age does make a little of a difference.
I would say she does like you BUT, from what my female friends tells me (reliable ones), she may be trying to hide her feelings for you?
I put a question mark there because I've been around a bit longer & still find the whole situation a bit weird, especially when some women treats you bad when they like you just to hide their feelings for you (Just talk to us).
I would recommend you to be cool, patience & just be friendly, sometimes it's like being aligned together then you will know were you stand & be better prepared handle the situation & make the right decision, it is very hard when you like someone & confusing but I think everyone is a little different so being patience is important as well as just being friendly.
You are in fact taking control.
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