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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

(More questions from October, 2011)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I need his support. Why will my fiance not stand up for me when his Mom is appallingly rude to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My fiance's family are Mormon and his mother has never approved of me. She has always been rude to me and I have never stood up to her because I do not feel that it is my place. My fiance and I have had so many arguments about his family and he just...

To me he is disrespectful. Why mess me around? Is this how men act when they mess up?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I were supposed to go to Jamaica yesterday. I booked the ticket for us back in April. He left to his home country in August and the first thing I said was remember our October trip. Anyhow three days ago, I kept asking if he had b...

He wasn't like this at the start. He rebuffs me sexually. Should I act cool in the morning even though his refusal upsets me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now, and i seriously believe whole heartedly that we are meant to be together we are two of a kind, and we have fallen for each other so quickly. He treats me absolutely amazingly and always puts me ...

Mini-makeout session? girls 18-19: how far would you expect the guy to go on your first date with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am going to get mixed answers here, no doubt. This is aimed at the girls. As an 18 or 19 year old, how far would you expect a guy to go on a first date? Would a mini make out session be too much? How come in the movies couples seem to sleep with ...

Shd he set firmer boundaries when his friends pester him ? Are his friends jealous of his time with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Okay, this question may sound a bit silly, but do I have a point please tell me ... Okay so I went on a family holiday monday til friday and my boyfriend came too. On the friday it didnt even reach the afternoon and he had a call from his flat ma...

I loved him. He hates me now. what can I do? Did he really cheat? I feel so much pain over this breakup.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I was in a long-distance relationship for one year and a half. In a moment of intense weakness, I entered my ex-boyfriend's facebook account. There I found some chat history between him and a girl 15 years younger than him. She seemed to be flir...

My mother calls him a waste of space. Why can't my parents accept him, despite all the good things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My parents dislike (and I suspect possibly even hate) my boyfriend. Why? I'm 19, and he's 21, he's got a job in IT / computer maintenance, went to uni and is qualified, doesn't drink (except as a social drinker) and spends most of his time outside...

Party? what Party? What does it mean when my boyfriend does not invite me to go to a party with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I just found out my boyfriend is going to a party and he didn't invite me. It's not the first time this has happened, really. We have been together for over a year and I think we should go to parties together! (I ALWAYS invite him to my parties ...

Did I over-react? my husband defended his friend. Ignored my feelings. The sexual joke was about me

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Tell me if I'm over reacting or if I took this the wrong way. My husband has a male friend who I think has really disrespected me. They were talking online with a bunch of people. My husband's friend said: "We should get you a webcam and have ...

I don't want to be gay. My old friend and I started doing gay things with each other. How do I stop feeling this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am 20 years old, My old friend and I started doing gay things with each other, we were at first just trying then it turned into anytime we saw each other. we couldn't stop now I cant even get hard looking at girls. I realize I am probably gay, but...

I want to be the man she wants. How can I make things more interesting betwen us so I don't lose her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4824 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - Please help me out.I have been a relationship for two years, and something happend to me lately. I called my girl with a new phone and sim,claiming to be someone else entirely,(i claimed to be john), i changed my voice for 2 weeks towards her and ...

My girl friend wants to stop sex! I freaked out. Please, how can I make our relationship work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - Hi people of dearcupid I have a major problem with my girlfriend it is just that I love her so damn much and she all of sudden she asked that if we can stop having sex and I got freaked out and asked her why and if she is cheating on me or somethin...

Instead of looking for a job he's looking for escourts and transgenders. How do I leave him when I am penniless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I am so confused. I live the "perfect family lie," as I am a stay at home mom with 2 kids, one in school and one infant. Lately things have gone down hill majorly. My husband, who before the baby came, and still LOVES my first child, but I some...

Medical reason? Or does excessive kissing or kissing too deeply make your lips a little puffy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Why were my bf's lips looking slightly puffy? i wanted to ask since i noticed my bf's lips like that when he came back from work. it wasn't thin and normal like its usually.that day it looked that his upper lip was slightly bee stung. i have n...

They are 'taken' So Why do people see married men/women in the first place?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Note: if you honestly didn't know he/she was with someone, i undertand completely. I have seen so many questions on here about people being broken hearted about their lovers leaving them and all I can think is, what did you expect? I keep t...

Teething problems with domestic bliss? How do we get the Loving Bliss back into our relationship now we have moved in together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I've just moved in with my boyfriend of many years. We're renting an apartment together. It seems since we've gotten our own place, all our time is taken up with housework! We both work fulltime (and he works TWO jobs, so starts his second one a...

Should I be giving him advice to get the girl he wants? Because I WANT him for myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I think I am in a love square... Kind of.. Okay, so I like my friend, who likes one of our other friends, and she likes her friend. So we all "like the wrong poeple" so to speak... what should I do? He asks me for advice, and it kills me inside to ...

Nine pm curfew still at almost 19! Is this reasonable? the restrictions are stifling me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - So, I'm 18 going on 19 and still living at home, trying to finish my freshman year of college and I have a 9'o clock curfew still. I don't know what to do. I can't even use my vehicle without their permission which means I can't go out with my ...

We are virtual friends and Sext. Should I tell his new girlfriend about us? He says we do the things his Gf is too shy to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i met in college back in december of last year. for most of that time, me and him have kind of been...well, i guess a good term for it would be "virtual friends with benefits." basically, we sext (without pi...

Should I be worried? Her reasons are my snoring? my sadness is no intimacy. My wife and I haven't shared a bed in six years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - My wife and I sleep in separate bedrooms. We have been married for 19 years and this started about 6 years ago. Before that time, we always spent the night together. In fact, I can remember once when my wife was away at her mom's in another ...

Aunts and Uncles help me please on your marriage statistics? I want to ensure my marriage succeeds.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - This is a question for the aunts (male and female) who are currently, or have been, married. How long before marriage did you know your spouse? How long were the two of you a couple? Are you happy with how long you waited to take that step, sorry...

My younger wife is having sexual problems. How can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4820 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am a 53 year old male married to a 25 year old and we are having sexual problems not by me but her. we also have 4 children. Can you give me some advice? ...

I arranged this date before I knew my mate adores and wants her. Do I cancel my date with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I have a real issue. My best friend just told me about his undying love for this girl, usually, not a problem. In fact, i'd do anything within my power to make it happen for him. However, I like the girl too and to make it even worse she's coming o...

My over-protective judgmental Mother makes it impossible to see my Bf. How do I make her see reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My guy and I are in a difficult position. We're not exactly boyfriend and girlfriend but we've been dating for 4 months. I,ve met his family and I want him to meet mine. but because he works so hard and late we barely get to see each other Once a we...