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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I think I hit and abused my gf while under the influence of alcohol!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - My life long best friend has been a girl we will call Jill, when we were 16 we decided that we would start dating. We have always had an amazing friednship and relationship. We are the type of couple that can go out with our friends and have fun ...

I don't how to conduct myself in front of my girlfriend's friends, please guide me out of this messy thing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - I am in a relationship with this girl for the last two years . I have one problem and that is that I don't know how to conduct myself in front of her 3 girlfriends when I confront them in her presence . When I talk to them sweetly then afterwar...

I'm single and I'm obsessing over a married woman. I want to get closer to her. Is this an emotional affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - A young woman recently transferred to my place of work. She's from another country, and extremely beautiful. I'm a single male in my mid-20s who works on the opposite side of the building. After her first or second week we just hit it off, started ...

Any tips please on how to get him back? I love him and want him back. he's been depressed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years dumped me 6 months ago and I am still not over it. We still talk now but online and I miss him like you wouldnt believe. He dumped me because he had became depressed as he had no idea what he was doing with his life an...

How can I tell my boyfriend that I've lost our baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I was 8 weeks pregnant until 2 days ago I lost the baby. Inside I feel so sad and desperately lonely. This is because I dont know how to tell my boyfriend I have lost our baby. I am in a LDR with my bf whos in the military. We have been togeth...

He is just too big, but I love him, how can I please him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I won’t be shy, I’ve been around the block more than a few times and never have I come across anything like this. I met this totally great guy last year. He was friendly and we got talking. We’ve been dating for the last 9 months or so now. But when...

How do I get some balance, peace, more social activities and some friends into my far too busy and exhausting life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - This is a bit long but this vent is a long time coming. Please... try not to look at this as "another loner bitching about pointless shit". I'm really desperate right now and I need some advice. Thanks in advance. A little background befor...

Just a dream? my ex-girlfriend appeared in my dreams. What does this mean? Is there still a chance for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend dumped last year saying I had no future by doing odd job . After long time, last night, I had her in my dream in which she was saying that she would talk to me every Saturday on cellphone. What does it mean ? Does it mean she's ...

Why? He Suddenly changed his attitude, from being positive that things will turn out well to being negative about our chances

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I been in 3 yrs long distant relationship with this guy. He wasn't doing well in my country and left to go back to his own country. I visited him two times. we live half the planet away. it took 18 hrs to fly to him. We even plan to apply for work...

One week? silence. why hasn't he called me, text me, or asked to hang out again since our make-out session ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - Ok so I went on a group date with another X It started off as just hanging out and catching up but it ended as a date. Anyways.. I thought we hit it off realllly good. He was complimenting me all night, we were talking all night, and he pointed ...

Will no contact work? To see if we miss each other or are better off ending the relationship? She is resistent to the idea.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - Been dating same girl for 4.5 years now. We dont live together and dont have children. Over last 2 years we have grown apart. Today we had a long talk and we both agreed we need time apart from each other. We decided a month of no contact would be...

Is it time to stop talking to my ex?. I still love him. What does he want from me? I am sick of him making me feel so jealous

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - Dear readers I still love my ex boyfriend. Its been 10 months since we broke up. Lately he has been chatting with my cousin sister on a social network site. She is 3 years our junior and is more attractive than I am. He finds her to be an interes...

He found out I used to be an escort and I don't want to lose him

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - He found out that I was an escort for 2 months, before our faithful and meaningful relationship. We love each other more than anything, because we are both each other's first love. I feel extremely sorry and disgusting for what I did and I wished ...

Will lack of trust ruin everything? He keeps in regular touch with his ex's (plural). Our sex life sucks.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for a year. We've both been in serious relationships that were not that great in the past. We've discussed marriage/kids and he's even asked me my ring size. Our relationship is perfect, except there's been a ...

Does he have commitment issues? Or do I wait longer for him to use the 'love' word?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I met my boyfriend last year, via a mutual friend. We were introduced online (3 way convo on msn) and after 1 month, we decided to meet up. We got together two months later and have, so far been a couple for nearly a year. my problem is this; after ...

Do I keep going with her? Or give up on her until she is over her ex? Am I just the nice rebound guy to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - ok so feel a bit strange about doing this but really need some advice. I'm 31, pretty normal guy. Have had a very normal relationship history up to now - few happy long term relationships, few shorter term things. My issue is with my current ...

How can I get less nervous about sexual things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - Recently, me and my bf started gradually doing more than just a soft kiss here or there. He's a gentle person (to me, at least xD) and he respects my boundaries, but I'm still nervous about these things, and talking about them, or hearing him talk ...

How do I instigate an maintain a long term serious relationship with a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

16 October 2011 (M) - Hello There's this girl that I have been talking to for about 2 months already. She is wonderful and also a sweetheart, so you're wondering what's the problem here. The thing is that I have never been in a serious relationship before. I have o...

He seemed pretty disappointed. Even though he got real close. Does this happen often? How do I give him support over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - Ok, so today me and my boyfriend got to third base. It was clear what his intentions were after a while, and I didn't really mind, I guess.... Only problem is, I couldn't...You know...and he seemed pretty dissapointed, even though he got me real ...