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writes:I am 20 years old, My old friend and I started doing gay things with each other, we were at first just trying then it turned into anytime we saw each other.we couldn't stop now I cant even get hard looking at girls. I realize I am probably gay, but I really don't want to be gay.is there anything to do to help? I have not told any of my friends or family.im to scared of the outcome. Reply to this Question
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reader, chocogirl  +, writes (28 October 2011):
it's gonna be okay. for a while i was bi-curious and it made me panic. i was terrified about what consequences it could have on my life. but now i have accepted that i'm bi and it really hasn't changed much. it's a part of who i am, but it doesn't define me. don't be scared of what you feel.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (15 October 2011):
 Well... if you're gay, like you say you think you are there's really only one thing that you can do. Stop trying to deny what you are and just accept yourself.
Remember... You can't truly love someone else... until you love yourself.
I know it's a HARD thing to do. I cried many a night wishing that I too was not gay. Once you finally accept yourself for who/what you are you can then move on to the almost more torturous part of getting others to accept you. It's actually VERY liberating and makes you feel good, especially about yourself, once you've actually come out to someone you know, trust, and/or love.
Good luck.
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