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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

To me my wife is perfect. How do I help my wife to accept that I love her? she's still blaming herself for something that was not her fault, before we met.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - I need advice on how to help my wife. We've been married a little over 3 years, have 1 daughter, and she is pregnant again with our 2nd. If our 2nd child is a boy we are going to stop, if it's a girl, we will have a 3rd trying for a boy. I ma...

Do men generally avoid a woman who has experienced sexual abuse in her past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Hello Everyone. I understand the moment anyone who mentions sexual abuse o/r abuse of any kind screams a red flag, but do men usually avoid women how have experienced abuse? Would you place a stigma on her as being emotionally unstable and avoi...

Married a man I did not love. Wish I could have loved him. Since then why do all my relationships end, leaving me depressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - I'm feeling really defeated and down so I'm hoping maybe someone can give me some advice since there have been some awesome agony aunts and uncles on this site. I was married to this guy for a few years. The only reason we stayed together for as l...

Can I ever make things right between us again? I lost a dear friend, what to do? She's blocked me every way she can.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - Hi guys, I apologize in advance for this long story, but it is just complicated and those who read it, I appreciate it a lot! Well, I met a girl on Facebook. At first we communicated there for over 6 months, exchanging messages on almost a dail...

How do I stop looking for a problem when it isn't there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - I've taken a partner back after he had an affair - we are on a new road and taking back to our relationship. My problem is trust I keep looking in his phone and checking texts messages, this is my issue and I want to stop it. I recently sent a txt ...

Am I not fulfilling him if he's watching this category of porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Ok here is the deal. My fiance has an obession of black porn. I am asian and average looking women. All I see is ebony categories. There was one porn where he had watched a white guy and a black girl porn. I had confronted him about if he likes ...

I'm starting to see a red flag -- is it really there?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - I wanted your guys or girls opinion on something? I met this realy nice lady, we are about the same age we hit it off great and actually still are, though we have been going out exclusively with eachother for only 6 weeks. Now this woman has neve...

She had sex before we met, now I can't trust her.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I need some advise on what I should do. I have been with this girl for the last 5 years. The problem is that I cant resepct her or do anything nice for her. She has a past, she lost her virginity when she was 15 years old and stayed in ...

He dumped me out of the blue, found out he was cheating on me all along. How can I get past this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Why do I feel the way I do? is it normal? ? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, I never cheated on him or lied to him. He was so sweet and lovely told me he loved me everyday and I believed him cos all his actions told me he loved me. He su...

How I can help my friend? Should I just stay out of her problems and be a good friend to her in other ways? Or should I try to do something more to help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I am trying to help a friend of mine but need advice please. The woman in question was with her partner for about 14 years and, during that time, he treated her very badly indeed - drinking, being abusive, even hitting her and showing little ...

How do I tell him I'm uncomfortable with him seeing his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - How to deal with this pending meet of his? Ill try to keep this as short as possible. My bf is going to see his ex this weekend to help her out and I dont know how to handle my feelings about it. She is a much older woman and nearly 30 yrs hi...

How can I change my insecurity issuses so I don't drive him away once again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - My bf of almost three years and I just got back after being broken up for about six months. In the past I became insecure because I felt him becoming distant and then he would lie and hide certain things from me and then as I felt him pulling away I ...

Why would he want to help me if he does not love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend said it wont work anymore because i do not respect him. But i never saw it like that and i thought i was being open about me feelings. Like when something happens or when he says something to upset me when i confront him about it he ...

Do I open Pandora's box to ease my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been fairly open and up front with me about the women in his life. He has talked about one at work that apparently all the guys ogle, and another that has befriended him (I think she has a crush on him). We're friends on Facebook ...