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writes:Okay, this question may sound a bit silly, but do I have a point please tell me ...Okay so I went on a family holiday monday til friday and my boyfriend came too. On the friday it didnt even reach the afternoon and he had a call from his flat mate asking when he would be back and if he was doing anything later. My boyfriend said he didnt know and would speak to them later.Then at 5pm he got a phone call from one of his friends asking him if he fancied a night out that night -my bf said he wasnt sure cause he s still pretty far away and he may be tierd (this is the part that annoyed me. that we were coming home that friday and his friends were pestering him to go out with them ... what about me? did they expect the minute we got home we would just part? i found it really rude and he then said to them that he would text them when he was home.)then when we got home, without texting them, his friend phoned him up again - by this time is was 12am on the satuday morning. and asked him if there was ayway they could convince to come out, he kept saying no way to them and that he was tired. i was angry and told him just to leave - this may sound over the top but i'm annoyed that whenever he is busy with me, when he is asked what his plans are he will say nothing, or he doesnt know. Yet, then when his friends try and arrange something with him then he will say oh i'm seeing lucy tonight. It really bugs me he always does it. when he gets a text/phone call - he doesnt mention me at all til it gets to the planning stage. So i got angry at him because he wasnt firm with his friends, at first, instead of saying no, I'm coming back from holiday with lucy I'll be with her.i asked him to tell them it was rude and to not pester him again, when we are on holiday with each other. He said it wasnt rude and he will not say that to them.he kept saying after it that i have started an argument over his friends texting him, but that wasnt the case, it was that they kept tryin to make plans with him the second he got back from holiday!do i have a point?if so, what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2011): I agree with you. DOnt be mad at his friends, just him. He needs to be straight forward with them. Its not right for him to lie and say hes doing nothing when hes doing something with you and then hemm and haww later about how hes meeting you. Its dumb. Just be straight up.
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reader, amenthyst3356  +, writes (15 October 2011):
Your anger should be directed at him not his friends. He told them that he might go out with them. Maybe he felt that all day with you and then he would see his friends. Don't get too clingy bc it will just blow up in your face.
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