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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Do I walk away? Or try one more time? when I see him, its torture when nothing comes out of it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - So I am just looking for people's general opinions and how they would deal in this situation. Im really sorry its long! I had a crush on a teacher who wasnt actually my teacher, in high school. I honestly cant explain the feeling. It wasn...

His Mom and us! How do I talk to him about this? How can we make this situation better

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - Hello all! Any advice is much appreciated. My boyfriend is 21 (soon to be 22) and I am 20, respectively. We have been dating for nearly five months. I care about him a lot and truly love him but we have been hitting some stumbling blocks lately. T...

How can I further improve my thoughts about myself and help my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - Hello, So I guess I'll tell my story. I am 16 and my boyfriend is 20. (yes, i am aware of the age difference please do not comment on it) We've been dating for 7 months. We are both very in love with each other. I'm very insecure. I always belie...

Do I become friends with my ex or do I move on?? or secretly wait for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - Its been about 3 months since I broke up with my girlfriend, we broke up because of past resentment, pent-up frustration and constant fighting (which was mostly started by me). I apologized to her and how my actions affected our relationship and ...

He never said he liked me. Do you think he's a player? If he does kiss me is that significant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - Well, I've known this guy for a long time. We've occasionally talked, but not like we were friends or anything. Recently, he gave me his number and we've texted for a week STRAIGHT. Actually, he would text me. Then it just stopped. So I texted him,...

What's the possible reason to why he's acting like this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - Hi, So yesterday me and my boyfriend of almost 2 years went out together had a really nice day, even bought me one or two things too which was out of the blue but very very nice and kept telling me he loved me and missed me because we hadn't b...

Does he really love me? And why does he not want me to see other men, when he already has a wife he cheats on?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - ModNote: two adjacent related questions joined into one. I need advice. I am currently in a relationship with a married man. I am 28 and this has been going on for a little over a year. It started off as just sex but now I've fallen in love with...

How do I deal with or even support my daughter when her partner does everything to alienate her from us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - I am in my early sixties, happily married. My daughter lives in Ireland and is a single mother even if she lives with her partner. They are both unemployed. How do you deal with your daughter's partner when he shows signs of personality disorder...

My love crushes and unrequitted love have gone on for a while.Can I expect them to ever love me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - i am 13 years old. and i hav been in deep love with a guy i know for 3 years,(call him A) A does know i love him but he doesn't love me back.so i decided though at a very early age that i will wait for him to love me. i think he will even...

Girl at school told me it's just a phase. It's not. What can I do about my love for my possibly gay PE teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - Im 15 and i love my pe teacher but he never seems to notice me, my friend caught me staring at him in the cafateria and i had to spill my guts and she just told me its a phase and i'll get over it. but i know its not and i really want him both in a...

I am a shy, gay and socially inept. How have others in my situation formed relationship? Could my cyber friend become more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - I was inclined to pose to my problem because I am not sure what to do. Well, like most who come here. Anyhow, I am a gay man. I am also socially inept. And recently, I joined this international social network (quite ironic with the former comment)...

My ex will not leave me alone. And I'm afraid I'm letting things move too fast in my new relationship. Is my new relationship the answer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months a month and a half ago. I guess you could say... I fell out of love. I was miserable, unhappy. Kisses and hugs felt... absolutely empty. I wanted to stay to make him happy but I started reverting back to ...

Would a couples therapist be the answer? It destroys me, but she just doesn't get it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - I've asked a question on here before about the same thing, but this time its a little less extreme. Basically this question sums up my problem: http://www.dearcupid.org/quest...

I am in a slump and sick of being single. Where should I look to find a woman I want to share my life with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - I'm sick of being single. I'm 33, I have no children, I have a job I hate, I have a home that still needs several grand in work to finish it. I've taken an almost 1 year sebatical from dating. I've learned that I went after women that needed take...

What's his aim? He wanted to be on friendly terms after the breakup, now that I'm ready for it, he's being aloof

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - We had a brief romance, but it was pretty intense while it lasted. At first, he wanted to be friends after, esp since we have to still see each other everyday at work..but I got nasty..that was my fault. Anyway, it was like 6 months ago and he a...

So does he like me or find me attractive? Is it likely he is interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - so theres this guy i work with and i find him rather attractive, well these past few days hes complimented my hair saying its cool, complimented my watch, and complimented my boots, and today he asked if i have boyfriend.so is this guy into me??...

I want to be fair. Do I yell at them or talk to the school counselor on monday?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - Is this normal, or have they crossed the line? I write this while my tears are still as fresh as the memories itself.. Yesterday, I was told "if you keep talking back, you wont have computer priveledges tomorrow" I wasn't talking back...

My FWB? he's awesome. But I'm starting to worry we will break up. can I strengthen our bonds?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - Hey everyone. So just a bit of background info, my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months, we're both 19 and we have known each other for 3 years ("friends with benefits" for 2 years of that) so I guess I would say given our ages we have a ...

Should I ask her what is wrong? Is there a mis-understanding over texting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - There's this girl I like. I always text/talk to her when I can, and she asks me for homework help pretty often. Today, I was going to ask her to a dance, but my friend wouldn't leave us alone, and she left before he did. I decided to call ...

I don't want my father at my wedding. But he's said "i had better be invited".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

22 October 2011 (F) - Im gettin married next year and while everything is perfect in the sence that im marrying the love of my life, I hav a huge problem concerning my father. Its a long story so i'll explain best i can my father suffers from a mental illness and also...

Am I addicted to sex? if yes, then will that make it difficult for my fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - i cant go for 2 days without sex without going completely nuts. my sex life with my fiance is great however sometimes i will pressure my fiance for sex, even if she is tired or feels unwell and afterwards feel horrible about it because when i am ...

Do I have trust issues? My G/f blames me for being upset at her, due to her exchanging flirty texts with guys.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

22 October 2011 (M) - i just found out that my girl friend is exchanging dirty messages and flirts on the phone with a guy she says is her friend. i asked her about it and she got all defensive n blamed me that i had trust issues,plz help....