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writes: dear cupid,soo, there's this guy that i met in college back in december of last year. for most of that time, me and him have kind of been...well, i guess a good term for it would be "virtual friends with benefits." basically, we sext (without pictures).well, he recently acquired a girlfriend and moved about seven hours away to be with her. i've never met her, but from what i've seen on facebook, they seem like they're really close. but the thing is, he still texts me, like, all the time wanting to talk sexy and stuff. i keep telling him that he has a girlfriend for that sort of thing, but all he says is that she's too shy to do it.my question is, should i let his girlfriend know what's going on??? i kind of feel like it might be pointless to tell her since we've never met...therefore she probably wouldn't even believe me. but at the same time, i kind of feel like she should know...because if i was in her shoes, i would want to know about what my boyfriend had been doing behind my back.soo, what do you think??? do i tell her, or not???
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 October 2011):
 not your place to tell her.. but i'd cut him off as a friend.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 October 2011):
 Don't tell her, just stop talking to him at all and move on. You are essentially the other woman in this scenario.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhii...
yeahh, i think you're right. i've actually been considering that. most of the time, i don't even text back. i'm thinking that it's going to become ALL of the time. thanks for your input!!! ")
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (15 October 2011):
 No, don't tell her. And, you might want to consider dropping this man now that he has a girlfriend.
If he thinks she's "too shy" then that's his/their problem not yours.
Best to leave it alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2011): If you feel the need to, then do so. But I would just tell this douche to back the get lost or else you WILL tell her and show her the messages yourself
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