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writes:Please help me out.I have been a relationship for two years, and something happend to me lately. I called my girl with a new phone and sim,claiming to be someone else entirely,(i claimed to be john), i changed my voice for 2 weeks towards her and she never knew that it was me,we chatted and talked on several things.Along the line, i later realize that she startd tripping for(john) and she told me(john) tjhat she loves his boyfriend but the only thing that would make her leave her boyfriend is because am too quiet in the relationship.Well truly am quiet in the relationship, i dont want to lose this girl, but i just dont know how to make things more lively and interesting, while we are together.Although she used to tell me that I am too gentle and she doesn't like it tha way.I have switched off the new sim i just got i.e (as john).What can i do to make things better as me in this relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2011): First of all you should not have tried to deceive her with "John". If she is a smart woman she probably recognised your voice anyway and used it as an opportunity to tell you what she wants from you.More than anything else she wants you to stand up for her. Need her. Demonstrate your respect for her at every opportunity. Be caring and loving and hold her hand. Give her cuddles. Tell her how much you cherish her.Do the nice things for her and with her. Like cooking a meal together. Like knowing the things that are important to her. Find time to talk to her regularly. Show her that she is the one for you by your actions.Ask her regularly "What do you need?" and "What can I do to help you?" "what would make you happy?"You have been together for two years and you would like to make things more lively? Then perhaps the following article may help?http://www.dearcupid.org/question/spicing-up-your-sex-life.htmlHope things improve soon.
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