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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I feel like I need her to be happy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4826 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - I met this girl when I was 16 (young, I know) and well we were friends for a year, then after realizing our feelings as more than friends we dated for 2 years. She left me in a complicated process for another guy whom she had liked before she met ...

How can I learn to accept he wants someone else but still loves me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - My partner has decided to start looking for other female company on chat sites. We got into a situation of our doing but I found I could not cope with the situation. He cannot understand that I have feelings that get hurt. It is destroying our ...

I'm in an open relationship. my friend's brother and I had sex. So why did'nt he reply after our great night?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - My husband and i agreed to an open relationship not too long ago after being married for 6 years. I met my friends brother at a club few days back. He was flirting with me, buying me drinks, dancing with me etc. I told him about my relation...

Do I listen to my friends? Give in to my doubts? Alarm bells, not wedding bells are ringing in my ears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - i'm with a guy who wants to marry me. Yet alarm bells are ringing? He has his own business in istanbul and two other businesses in another city. But my friends say he is using me for passport and visa. Has anyone any advice for me? ...

Why is he talking to women online and getting nude pictures?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 4 yrs now and have two young children together, one just two months. I recently found him on a website and his profile shows single looking to meet. i also found pics of another girl, some nude, on his phone. ...

Is it unreasonable that I'd like sex with her every so often? She's stopped all sex now she is a Christian

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4826 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, I am in a relationship with this amazing girl and have been for over a 18 months, when we first dated we were having sex twice a week. This carried on until about 12 months later when she asked if we can stop having sex as she is a ...

Is he lying? Says his kiss meant nothing. But my friends say he talks about me non-stop. Is he smitten?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - So this boy kisses me, and then when I try to question him about it, as I like him, he tells me it's nothing and we'd never be anything. Yet every single one of his friends and my friends say he talks about me non-stop, and stares at me, and gets...

I went on a training course. Unbeknown to me he went on a trip with his ex. How do I cope with all the turmoil in me over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I feel as if I have somehow lost myself. I am an almost thirty year old woman, and have lived a fairly adventerous life. I have traveled, studied, and most of the things people talk of doing. I have never had a serious relationship unt...

How do I cope with the downsides of a FWB relationship? tips please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - For those of you in a long distance relationship, how do you cope with saying goodbye (til next time)? I normally get a few days with my man every couple weeks but I only got one day this time around and at the risk of sounding like a big, fat ...

Is his choice just a convenient way for him to continueliving his single life and enjoy benefits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - About 7 months ago I got out of a long term relationship. Almost as soon as that relationship ended I began seeing a co-worker and friend of my ex-boyfriends (they are not great friends but they do work together and they have mutual friends and some...

Is his Ex trying to talk her way back into his life? If I confront him, he'll know I snooped.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4826 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - Please help :/ A little back story: I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months and we have known each other and been friends for 12 years. He broke up with his gf of 1 year about 2 months before we progressed into a relationship and made things o...

Over-reaction? "what girl did he get this from?" Suddenly he's lifted his game in the bedroom. Should I be worried that he may be cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or I should be worried. When it comes to sex with my long-distance boyfriend, he's always been really simple/traditional/I'm not sure what to call it. Foreplay isn't much of a factor, barely any kissing, and we alwa...

Yes, drunk, I kissed a boy. Shall I tell my BF? But worse my BF did the same a year ago with a girl I know. Do I confront him with this new info on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - This is long. but please bare with me. Here it comes, the age-old question, manifested into one very weird situation: What is worse. emotional betrayal or physical betrayal? Here's the story. I am at university right now, i'v just finished ...

To Text or not to Text? Does it work for all or only for some?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

11 October 2011 (M) - Hi All. I was wondering what you think is an acceptable amount to text your partner? See, I was once in a long term relationship with a girl who would always send a text each day with 'Good Morning' and then 'Good Night' later on, as well a...

Dated him, dumped him, cheated with him, dated him again, I found out he was cheating, dumped him, then decided not to try again. But what if I should have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - i liked this guy who use to be a player until he met me i dated him for a month, loved every min of it, and then i dumped him for my x.....a month later i ended up cheatin on my boyfriend for this guy, and then we ended up datin a month after that ...

I know I'll be hurt if I stay with him, but it'll hurt if I say we're over too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

11 October 2011 (F) - I,m dating this AMAZING guy. He's sweet, funny, kind, caring and I really care about him. I feel like I love him but I know he doesn't feel the same...he doesn't really want a relationship. The thing is he's had alot of lovers in the past and only 3 ...