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writes:Hello,One of by best mates is a girl, we are very close. We finished school early today as it is the last day of term and we decided to go on a walk together. it was snowing so we had alot of fun. after a while of talking we randomly started talking about masturbation. after that we just spent hours asking questions about each other and she is funny so we were making a joke out of it but it was still very personal and i think she must trust me alot to be able to tell me things and be so open to me, visa versa.After a while it came onto the subject on who we fancy. it was awquard because i fancy her but dont want to admit it to her. i have a few questions but here we go:how do you tell if she likes me? (how she might act)If we went out, do you think it would wreck out friendship?in a way i think she likes me because she flirts with me alot and we both have a great sense of humour and have a good laugh. she is a personal person and would definately not tell anyone else what we had been talking about, do you think she likes me because she was saying all this?because we were on the subject of masturbating she was saying that a girl doesnt need to get horny to masturbate like a boy does and that you dont need to masturbate over someonoe else like a boy might. i didnt really believe her but she sort of admitted it at the end. but i didnt want to ask her this but how do you know if a girl is horny?please give me some answers quick, im seeing her tomorrow and wont know what to sayThanks:-)
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 hmm i think you need to put the ball in her court, i suggest telling her she likes you she can then either deny it or admit it or she might say as a friend but then that means she likes you if you go to her and tell her you like her and she doesnt like you it could get awkward. so you need to turn on the fire get in her head a little think of a way to get her to admit she likes you in more then just a friend way. once i had a friend one day i stared at her untill she noticed me staring when she saw me staring she asked me why i was staring at her i wanted to say something ridiculous so i told her i was trying to picture her in a bikini on the beach and then i told her to stop talking cause shes going to ruin it. well i say stupid things cause thats how i roll but it worked she was crazy about me after that now the thing is if she likes you as a friend shell take something like that as a joke if she likes you as more then a friend shes gonna take you seriously. Any way you dont want to come on to strong cause if your a just friends type of guy then it could be awkward everything you say has to be able to be backed up by the im just joking response
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): You'll know a girl is horny when she crawls all over you and either tells you she is horny or is rubbing up against you, grabbing at you etc. I bet there are other ways to tell with different girls, and not all will be that open about their hornyness. So the very correct answer is: You can't know when a girl is horny unless its blatantly obvious, but then again many guys are just horrible with taking hints.The other question, how to tell of she likes you. Also, no way you can actually tell for sure. Some people are just flirty by nature. And maybe she isn't flirting at all, but just being nice and friendly. Many guys don't know the difference there either. There are sure ways to see if someone really is into you though, those signs are easier to catch, but if someone likes you I guess the only sign is that they hang out around you? In some cases the fact that a person is AVOIDING another means they like them. So really, the only way to know is simply ASK. Or ask her out on a date and see what she answers. And yes, it could ruin the friendship, depending on you two and what types of people you are. Are you easily embarrassed? Because in that case it could easily ruin the friendship. If you're both a little sturdy and actually have a GOOD friendship (as in known each other for years etc) then there's a chance the friendship can even get better once the air is cleaned.
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reader, acey lacey +, writes (18 December 2009):
 when you guys talked about who you fancy, did she tell you some guys name right away? and yea she definitely trusts you and all that but she might just trust you as a friend... i dont know, you kind of have to pick up on her hints before you make conclusions.
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