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Archived questions from: April, 2020 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Since getting a job my boyfriend's behaviour has changed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1536 days ago

30 April 2020 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a year now. He's good and wonderful but one thing I don't like about him is when it comes to money. For example, during valentine's Day he couldn't even get a chocolate or even a cup of water. It wasn't that he w...

Is it time for me to finally move on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1659 days ago

30 April 2020 (F) - A few years ago I fell for a friend. We spent a lot of time together and all of his words and actions signalled he had romantic interest. I did not know where I stood with him so I asked him and he started panicking and said “he might have been ...

Married co worker is objectifying me and I just want to be friends.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1672 days ago

28 April 2020 (F) - Why does EVERY man I try to befriend end up objectifying me? They'll be totally respectful to our other mutual female friends but I get treated different. Like this guy I THOUGHT was nice at work: the worst thing he did was be "silly"and he did that ...

I'm struggling with waiting to see what happens with this guy after lockdown ends.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1673 days ago

27 April 2020 (F) - Before Corona virus hit I had been on a few dates with a front line doctor. We’ve known each other very loosely for a few years. I asked him if he wanted to go for a drink back in February then we had a great three dates before this hit, includ...

I give my girlfriend everything but it's not enough!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1668 days ago

27 April 2020 (M) - Im struggling with something. After a whole day of normal communication with my gf (we are living separate during lockdown) the smallest thing can make her go into a tantrum. For example I work 6pm-2am. Therefore when I finish at 2am I will call ...

I moved out because I didnt feel safe, landlords are asking me to come back.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1672 days ago

27 April 2020 (F) - Hi people. I moved out of a property 2 months ago due to the owner's adult kid harassing me. He made false accusations against me and was going through something at the time. I never made a big deal of the situation but I avoided talking to him. I ...

Is there a such thing as an obsessed partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1673 days ago

26 April 2020 (F) - Me and my fiancé have been together for almost 4 years lately I feel myself being more and more unhappy because I feel that I can’t balance time between him and my kids and myself. My fiancé seems to be very needy for my attention and when I can ...

Living at home again and sister is driving me crazy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1675 days ago

26 April 2020 (F) - My sister is 8 years younger than I, unfortunately due to financial issues I'm back living at home, and during this lockdown I don't think I can cope with her. She has aspergers which has gotten milder with age, but she has a tendancy to use it more ...

I don't think I should be his go to person every time he needs something

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1672 days ago

25 April 2020 (F) - My story is as old as world. Here it goes: I am in my 40s, moderately comfortable financially , love to travel . One day decided to go to Africa and met a guy. My age, divorced , bringing up his small son. And taking care of couple relative...

The disparity between our financial situations is causing problems in the relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1675 days ago

25 April 2020 (F) - Hello everybody, Thank you for taking the time to read this. I am after some advice on some financial/relationship issues. My boyfriend and I own a house together. We each put in as big deposit as we could afford at the time. His was much bigge...

Due to my past, I’m anxious and paranoid and am starting to become controlling! How to balance and maintain boundaries?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1676 days ago

24 April 2020 (F) - My previous boyfriend had multiple relationships behind my back, this has caused sever stress and insecurities for me. I’m am now in a relationship with someone else, for a year now. He is supportive and very patient and understanding of...

My partner is living with her parents to help them during this lockdown, and I’m feeling disconnected and not cared about!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1676 days ago

24 April 2020 (M) - Hi everyone, I hope you are all doing as well as can be expected. I am having an issue with my partner and looking for some advice. We are currently in lockdown and my partner is an hour away. She decided to go and stay with her parents as they ...

My husband had a video chat with another woman on the day I was having surgery!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1678 days ago

24 April 2020 (F) - I just had surgery today! It was tough on me! I am sensitive to anesthesia. And was puking and dizzy. I had a hard time. My husband dropped me off at the hospital because of Covid. He came to pick me up later after I recovered from anesthesia....

Things have changed since the baby came along. I'm not sure I want to be with my partner anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1679 days ago

23 April 2020 (F) - Ever since myself and my partner had our baby boy (10 months ago) our relationship hasn't been the same. Many people told us to make sure we still went on date nights, still made time for each other and not to let go of our relationship but in all ...

Should I assume he lost interest and deleted my number?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1677 days ago

21 April 2020 (F) - I have been briefly seeing a guy which started as friendship and we have been friends on FB. He last messaged me to ask how I was at the beginning of April. He last acknowledged me by text two weeks ago when I decided to tell him that if I had met ...

I should be so happy that we are getting married but I'm not because he cheated on me 2 years ago and 'm worried he's still in contact with the woman

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1680 days ago

21 April 2020 (F) - Hi All- I'm in desperate need of relationship advice. I'm currently engaged to someone who I've been with for almost 10 years. We've been engaged for about 5 months. As with any relationship, things between my fiance and I haven't always been suns...

Fiance texting crush, but wanting to have a family with me. Do I let it slide?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1678 days ago

20 April 2020 (F) - I'm not sure how to feel about this and i wondered if anyone could give me some advice. My partner had a crush on the same work colleague two times in our relationship, a couple of years apart (that i know of and he admitted to). They've neve...

Are these enough warning signs that my partner isn't into me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1673 days ago

20 April 2020 (F) - So I have been in a relationship for almost 6 months and am wondering whether this relationship will last. I've had a lot of bad relationships, and childhood was not ideal so I doubt myself a lot and struggle with what a normal relationship should ...

I'm not sure how to deal with my alcoholic parents

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1678 days ago

19 April 2020 (F) - Hey everyone! Love this site - I’m wanting a bit of advice regarding a family matter. I’m in a really good place right now. I’ve just moved cities, have a healthy relationship, moved in with some great people. I have a counsellor who I see every ...

He goes by secret pseudonyms and follows random people I used to know or he used to work with. He doesn't know that I'm on to him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1682 days ago

19 April 2020 (F) - My partner handed me their laptop so I could take a zoom meeting and I guess didn’t realize they had left their Instagram open. Well, he just made this new Instagram yesterday He had an old one which he had also kept a secret from me up until I ...

My husband treats me like a room mate and gets defensive when I try to discuss it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1683 days ago

18 April 2020 (F) - Dear cupid My husband of 2 years does not want to share bed with me. He plays games till very late and his work starts late in morning, but my work starts at 8 am. He thinks he sleeps better alone, I'm not comfortable sleeping alone, reason be...

I can’t understand why she doesn’t want sex with me anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1681 days ago

17 April 2020 (M) - Hi I’m not normally one to ask personal questions on these sort of things but I need advice I’ve been with my fiancée for 6 years we have a 3 year old together I started sleeping in the spare room when our child was ill and I haven’t moved back into ...

Does it matter if a boyfriend is saying he is only 45 percent attracted to me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1683 days ago

17 April 2020 (F) - A short question , just want opinions on being enough physically for a boyfriend . My boyfriend has given me a percent, and a value to what number he finds me attracted at 45 percent , should I be anyoed by this I never asked to be given a perce...

My neighbors are disrespectful in how to act since policies adopted for coronavirus

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1687 days ago

14 April 2020 (F) - Hi guys, I would really appreciate your advice. I live in a country that has introduced a severe measures for fighting the corona virus, including a stay-at-home / work-from-home, all non-essential activities are forbidden. You can go to...

I am fighting myself not to contact her

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 1682 days ago

14 April 2020 (M) - So someone i worked with is no longer talking to me. She knows that i like her as i always complimented her and even told her straight out "i like you". But something happened that she now ignores me. And i wish i knew what it was because it i...

I don't like his creepy behaviour

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1687 days ago

13 April 2020 (F) - There is a guy I met 3 years and I thought he could have been a potential suitor. Recently I have started to become aware of things that I do not like about him. Before the lockdown he would spend hours a day on Facebook. He has nearly 2000 like...

Its best not to get drunk and have sex with random people.

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12 April 2020 (F) - I said something the other day that that really hurt, embarrassed, and offended someone. I honestly feel bad they feel that way but I stand by what I said. Was it a true statement? Absolutely. Was it kind? Well... I wasn't trying to be UNkind and it ...

My partner stresses at me when I'm online gaming.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1686 days ago

11 April 2020 (M) - Hey guys, i play on the xbox most nights with a lad ive known for atleast 7 years, i havnt really spoke to him or played on the console with him for the last 2 years as he played differant games but now hes joined up with me again, but hes met other ...

My partner of 10 years is an alcoholic and porn addict with a bad temper, but he has his good points.. should I leave him? Title

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1689 days ago

11 April 2020 (F) - Hey guys! So I've been with my partner 10 years, it isn't all bad and I've learnt a lot through being with him. See, I grew up in a broken home, and though my mum loves me unconditionally, I was never really taught 'how to adult' or how to look ...

A guy I met on a dating site says he is going to talk to other girls..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1690 days ago

10 April 2020 (F) - I met a guy I a dating site. We chatted and exchanged numbers. He was calling and texting me everyday. He came to see me twice. We had sex. He kept calling and text for a few days. Then it just stopped. I looked at his Facebook. He was flirting with ...

I've been seeing a guy since 2018 but we don't seem to be progressing forward.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1688 days ago

10 April 2020 (F) - I have been casually seeing this guy since 2018. I am 37 and he's 43. At first it was just sex, and since he's a truck driver and a loner, he's away weeks, months at a time. Fast forward to last summer, we started "dating" and he even attended ...

I'm worried about my daughter's posts on Tik Tok, how do I approach this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1690 days ago

9 April 2020 (F) - Wow! It has been a long time since I came to this app, but I'm finding myself lost and needing help and support. My daughter is almost 13 at the end of the month. She is a typical 12 year old. Great with school work, always wanting to please, ...

Since this guy moved in I am losing my self esteem.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1692 days ago

9 April 2020 (F) - Hi all Dated a guy that I got from my best friend. After 2 months we moved into my house because where he was staying according to him they mistreated him. After 3 months together he started to undermine me, and emotionally abused me.he would talk...

I'm thinking of getting a vasectomy without telling my wife.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1686 days ago

9 April 2020 (M) - I'm thinking of getting a vasectomy behind my wifes back. We were only together four months when she got pregnant with our eldest son. She said she was on the pill, thats fine because these things happen and I love her and was pretty delighte...

I've met a 50 year old who lives in his mother's garage.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1688 days ago

9 April 2020 (F) - I recently met a guy who is nearing 50. He has a full time job and has worked in the same place for 20 years. The problem? He lives in his mother's garage. He's not an addict, has a job, has a car, his kids are grown and gone. He's been divorc...

Can I help the man I love, or will he never change?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1694 days ago

7 April 2020 (F) - Dear Cupid, I 26 am seeing a man who is 29 whom I have known for 10 years. he does nice things for me, he does his own washing, cleans up after himself (present) but here's the thing... 10 years ago when we were younger I was still in school, I...

What can I do to feel normal again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1694 days ago

6 April 2020 (F) - Asking this because I'm currently isolating with my family and having moved away at a very young age to get away from them, it's been very difficult mentally and I'm curious to know if my negative feelings are valid or not. I'm sorry if this is long ...

I dated a doctor before Corona, now not sure how to behave with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1689 days ago

6 April 2020 (F) - A couple of years ago I dated a guy for a couple of months. He was nice but I wasn’t over my long term ex. It ended because he said he couldn’t get my wall down (he was right). In February we bumped in to each other in the pub and went for a coffee ...

I'm in lockdown with an abusive husband.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1693 days ago

6 April 2020 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I hope you could give some advice I can use to do something about the situation I am currently in. I understand that these are hard times for everyone. My husband of 20 years and I are locked in in the best possible c...

This lockdown is testing our relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1696 days ago

5 April 2020 (F) - I've been stuck inside on lockdown for nearly a month now with my other half and his Dad who is our live-in landlord. We're getting to each other, nit-picking, moodswings, the lot. And I know it's because of the unusual circumstances that we're in...

He treats me like a queen but we are incompatible sexually! Should I stay with him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1697 days ago

2 April 2020 (F) - I met my current bf a few years after my divorce( with my hs sweetheart and first) and after a rebound relationship. I found him to be the sweetest guy( very polite, helpful, responsible and very attentive) After dating for a couple of years( and ...

I believed in him and now he is a big disappointment! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1697 days ago

1 April 2020 (F) - Hi all. My husband and I have been married for nearly 5 years now. Both of us work in the medical field. When we got married he promised me that he would continue to do his higher studies to achieve his dreams. 5 years later, I have managed to get ...

My boyfriend doesn't like me posting bikini photos of myself on the internet

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1696 days ago

1 April 2020 (F) - My bf is throwing a fit about me posting bikini pics on Instagram . I really enjoy doing this and don’t feel I should have to explain myself to him. This is something I have done since before we met but recently with mire time in my hands I have ...

Do I end our friendship because I don't like his female friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1700 days ago

1 April 2020 (F) - I have a male friend who I trust completely, he has a friendship with another girl and the two of them are friends, but I don't trust her. I prefer to keep my distance from her and try not to follow her on social media. She appears to rub off on him ...