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Archived questions from: October, 2018 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My married lover doesn't want me to go on trips by myself. Why doesn't he trust me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

31 October 2018 (F) - My married lover travels with his wife up to 3-5 times a year. The longest he is away is a month at a time. It's very difficult for me, even though I've chosen to place myself in this role. I feel resentful and left behind. They are natural ...

Is he just a liar toying with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

31 October 2018 (F) - Here's the deal. I met a guy down here in texas because he we was here for work. Long story short we hung out all the time and he added me and my best friend on fb. After he left he told her that he really likes me, not to let me lose interest and ...

Boyfriends drunken night may be the end of us but I want to make things work. How?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

30 October 2018 (F) - Dear cupid Me and my bf of three years had a bad fight tonight and he is not talking to me, i stay in his house. He is terribly druck after fight , fell in the bathroom, refused to take my help asked me to get out. I did leave him there, didn't kn...

He doesn't believe that I am over my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2220 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - So I met this guy via a dating app 9 months ago, we messaged for about 2 months but he was wary to meet up as he was still not entirely over his last relationship. I wanted to meet him but in the end he freaked out, back tracked and asked me not to ...

Why did my boyfriend treat me so badly and not care that he accidentally hurt me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2218 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend was getting ready to go to work today and we were talking to each other. We both moved in closer at the same time and the brim of his hat hit my nose really hard pushing it backwards and my nose made a cracking noise. I fell back in ...

I don't want to make things easy for my ex. Do I move out because he wants me to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2216 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - Hi This is gonna be long post . I am 23.lets call him A . We met in highschool and offically started dating. His parents and extended family approved of us and things were good. We were both young and immature .We had all ups and downin the relat...

I'm in a messed up situation with a guy from another country

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2220 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - Hey dear agony aunts I met this guy one month ago (B) who got my number from a friend of mine. We started talking casually. B doesn’t live in our country and he told me he while we were just talking that he had a girlfriend in a different country ...

I need your thoughts on how to sort this situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2221 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - Recently with the past 2 months, my boyfriend of nine years and I ended our relationship. Our relationship had it’s good points, but overall was very toxic and tumultuous. He has a pre-teen daughter and myself an 11-year-old son. He’s been my ...

During a break I went to work on my flaws but he never took responsibility of his. Now hes forcing his way back into my life. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2220 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I of 2 years went on a 6 week break after many rows. This was mainly due to my insecurity issues, which caused many arguments leading to the break. During the break I wanted to make a huge change in my life and went to see ...

He’s a selfish date, do I get rid or give him one last chance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2219 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - Why am i such an idiot. i arranged a date with a friend of mine we decided to give it a go. He messaged me to say he was home and that i can go round so i got a taxi to his and knocked on his door a few times and he didnt answer. It was late dark ...

Lover wants to stay with his children for now

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2220 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - My lover cannot live with me just yet because he still wants to live with his children who are 21 and 19.....He said they still need him .... He doesn’t love his wife... they share no interests as a couple, just stayed married for their kids sake... ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2217 days ago

28 October 2018 (M) - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

She said no. Should I keep trying?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2221 days ago

27 October 2018 (M) - So, I've liked somebody for a long time (2-3 years) and recently, a couple of weeks ago I decided to tell them how I felt. I've been friends with her since we first met and everybody I know was certain she was into me as well. Unfortunately I was ...

I wont to move across country and leave this life behind, but worry if I am doing the right thing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2224 days ago

24 October 2018 (F) - Should I move across the country? I have grown up in New York - originally born in Europe but immigrate here when I was 9. I am 33 now single female and for my education oout if the way and currently working 89 hours a week to pay off my debt/loans ...

I cannot tollerate my ex husband so why do I feel angry and rejected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2224 days ago

24 October 2018 (F) - I absolutely know that I cannot stay with my husband. We are near divorce and there are things I cannot tolerate about him. However, I still ache, I still miss the good stuff....and honestly word of his new relationship is killing me. I have ...

I think my husband is deliberately making himself unnatractive to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2225 days ago

24 October 2018 (F) - My husband never showers or brushes his teeth when he is home with me , even if it’s a whole week . We’ve been married less than two years. The last time we had sex was three months ago , he says he’s tired from working but watches porn ( ...

My mother's controlling attitude has put a huge strain on my marriage and I was too much of a coward to deal with her. What do I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2225 days ago

23 October 2018 (M) - I dated my wife for 5 years, now we are happily married for 6 years with 4kids. My mother was ok with her the first 2 years of us being together but after that she hated my wife for no reason. My mother became jealous of our relationship then she ...

How can I talk to someone that doesn't listen to anything I have to say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

22 October 2018 (F) - Hello and thank you for your opinions in advance My husband and I have been together for two years. When we were in a relationship he was extremely loving, expressive, a real sweetheart which didnt take me long to fall hard for him. For the fir...

I need emotional support which my husband can't give me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

21 October 2018 (F) - Hi everyone.. its been months since my last post here. I had my 2 weeks old son now after long labor and he is perfect. Im the one who posted about trouble with my husband and mother in law. Things are not getting better. Im still living in my in ...

My LDR guy ignores and hurts me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

21 October 2018 (F) - We are certainly not young in age: I'm 45 and my partner is 61 years old but both are new in LDR world. 2 years ago my partner has lived and worked in different country and we have been apart since then. He is workaholic. As a result he focuse...

I find myself wanting more but he appears lacklustre!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

21 October 2018 (F) - I’m seeing someone new and we’ve been dating almost a month. In that time Ive seen him about 6 or 7 times. Real dates. Dinner or movies etc. He is great about showing up and doing fun stuff I don’t feel like he’s just looking for a physical ...

He didn't disclose his real age. Am I overreacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2226 days ago

21 October 2018 (F) - I met a guy several months ago, when we were taking an evening class together. I was too shy to talk to anyone for a while, but then one day he and I found we took the same route home after class. We got talking. I mentioned I'd just had my 25th ...

Five years on and he is still accusing me of cheating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2226 days ago

20 October 2018 (F) - How can I get my partner to trust me? We've been together 5 years, I've NEVER done anything that's remotely disloyal or unfaithful. When we met I had a few male friends, I'm now not allowed to speak to any of them despite the fact that all I've ev...

I went out of my way to make my friend feel special on his birthday but he didn't do anything for me on mine

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

20 October 2018 (M) - It’s really bugging me that I spent my birthday alone. When my best friend has his birthday, I planned dinner, made sure all his friends were there. I personally took them, paid for him etc. We had a great time. Recently it was my bir...

How do I move forward and stop letting his coworker get to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2230 days ago

19 October 2018 (F) - So my husband has a female coworker and their work relationship has made me uncomfortable. More so because of the actions of my husband. He has lied to me numerous times and all lies have been associated with her. While this was happening, I was ...

Strange things keep happening after my one-night stand!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2230 days ago

19 October 2018 (F) - Hi everyone I split up with my partner but we carried on living together until he found somewhere to live I went out and slept with someone it was just a one night stand I woke up and told him I had a boyfriend even though we had split up just cos i ...

My husband wont discuss things and gives me the silent treatment.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2230 days ago

18 October 2018 (F) - Hello and thanks I tried writing in before but can't seem to find my question. My husband is very popular, and 10 years younger than myself. His friends are a huge part of his life and I knew that from day one. Sometimes I do get a bit a...

He asked me out as a joke but I said yes ... how do I face my friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2188 days ago

18 October 2018 (F) - My crush asked me out as a joke and I said yes. I was sick the day after and I wasn’t at school. My friends texted me about it. Apparently he had told most of my friends. Now I have to go back to school. I don’t really like him a lot. I just ...

I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2222 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I had split up for week, his decision and I was gutted but said I would respect his decision. I went out with a friend for a night out and i kissed two men. I love my boyfriend and I was upset with it all. We have now got back tog...

I said yes when he proposed but I worry it wasnt the right answer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2233 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 12 years and live with him. I've had some problems with my boyfriend for a while, maybe a year. He stopped being romantic and didn't go on dates or ever go out to spend time at the weekend with me. He woul...

Should I reply or ignore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2232 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - i think i am asking for advice due to a few things one is my age. OK so just over a year ago i was online dating and i went on a date with a guy we had a fab date or so i thought. The next day he said i was too ' out there ' im thinking he thought ...

I feel like our relationship has been killed by moving in together.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2230 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - HI I have been dating a guy for 6 months, he had to find new accommodation quickly and I stepped in and said that he could move in with me, (1 and half months ago) However I am now beginning to feel really frustrated, miserable and angry ...

Am I expecting too much from this man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2233 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend since May. The relationship has moved rather fast and he's moved in with me already. We've had our first few big fights and a few times I've asked him to move back out but he didn't due to no where to go and within a ...

I've been with him for 15 years. Am I stupid?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2234 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - Am I being dumb? I have been with my partner for 15 years We have 2 children together. His mum is constantly on the phone texting call and bitching about me. I have recently started a new Job, but that's more for her to bitch about me. I n...

How do I get over my co-worker? I have made sacrifices she wouldnt make and I know she doesn't care about me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2234 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - I apologise in advance for rambling but I wasn’t sure how to explain things. It’s been a long time since I last felt the need to ask for advice online but I’m desperate. I can’t talk to any of my friends because I’d be breaching confidentiality ...

Is he just not interested? being a jerk? Did I screw things up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2232 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - Hi, I have been single for twenty years and dating for ten, long years. I dated on and off, because of the bad experiences. I have dated a lot of men, who have commitment issues, some with intimate issues, not being truthful with what they really ...

My boyfriend is thinking about working with a woman I don't like! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2235 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm at the end of my rope. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and I love him with all my heart but I have always struggled with trust issues due to my boyfriend's career. He works at a gym a...

Is it cheating if my boyfriend stood and talked to a naked woman for 5 minutes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2233 days ago

13 October 2018 (F) - Grrr. Me and my boyfriend of 10 months have been arguing a lot lately. We've hit a rough patch. To make matters worse he broke his hand so he's out of work and can't drive right now. I moved him into my home about 2months ago. So now he's ...

How do you tell if your mother is a narcissist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

13 October 2018 (F) - I know my mom is a narcissist. Or maybe I am. I don't know. I hope not....My question is ... how do you tell? Little bit of back story... I started watching Bates Motel and I'm noticing some overlap when the show is juxtaposed with my real lif...

It seems like boyfriend's love is fading not sure why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - Hi I’m sorry if this is long. I’ve been with my new bf for 4 months. Everything was perfect. He told me he loves me from the bottom of his heart he went on holiday for two weeks and we spoke lots on the phone and video called each other. When...

My boyfriend’s family getting in the way of our relationship and they want to take my baby away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2237 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - I am really overwhelmed by a situation going on in my personal life with my partner. I am a mom of two, we live together, we have a one year old, I have a daughter and we live in an appartment inside his mom and step dad’s house who are not marr...

I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2234 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - Iv been having an affair for a couple of years now and decided to end my marriage. I'm living with a friend but my married lover is still staying put. I said it was my problem about leaving my husband but he said he was still worried for me. He ...

My boyfriend of 5 years is no longer sure he wants to be with me. I think he is going through some sort of life crisis

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - Hi everyone. This is pretty long so just bear with me please. I (25F) and my boyfriend (30M) have been together for 5 years. We have lived together for all of that. Before dating, we were very good online gaming buddies for another 5 years. I m...

Long distance relationship started out so good but now so bad. Do I end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2237 days ago

11 October 2018 (F) - so I am in a long distance relationship for 7 months now. He is from Texas and I'm from Ireland. We met on his first night here, and we just chatted for the whole night and we made plans for the next day and the next and it was on the second day he ...

What should I do to guard my heart and not be a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2237 days ago

11 October 2018 (M) - Hello, everyone. I’m a 21 year old homosexual male. About three weeks ago, my toxic, 2 year relationship ended with my ex. Throughout the entire duration of our relationship, he emotionally cheated, meaning that he would inbox other guys on social ...

My boyfriend is hurtful and tells me I cant take a joke!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2239 days ago

11 October 2018 (F) - I don't even know how to start. My boyfriend and I continuingly get into arguments. I think perhaps we are coming to understand that we are two people who don't understand eachother, or perhaps he doesn't understand me. I've come from a divorced ...

Are my expectations too high for my long distance boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2238 days ago

11 October 2018 (F) - Our LDR has been rocky the past few months. He's neglecting abd taking for granted our relationship. Today is my birthday. I spent the entire morning in Urgent Care because I had extremely bad stomach and back pains in the middle of the night, a...

How can we help this young man whose mother threw him out and bad mouths him to his own family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2238 days ago

10 October 2018 (F) - How can we make this better for this child? A few years ago, my family brought in a 13 year old troubled child and raised him as his Mum wanted nothing to do with him. She threw him out of the house with nothing but the clothes he was wearing. ...

Shall I carry on being her friend or is there anything else I can do to fix the issue ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2240 days ago

9 October 2018 (F) - I have been friends with someone for the past 3 years now and just recently I haven't been enjoying spending time with her . When ive been with her she can say some really cringey things , act silly and very childish most of the time but not all the ...

I seem to get looked over for the more "shiny" people

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2223 days ago

9 October 2018 (M) - Options. Everyone has options and like marketing the ones that are the shiniest are the ones that actually make it through. I've been meeting new people and just when I get close to them they start to be become distant and then you see them on ...