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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: l was in love with my boy friend for 8months and everything was well but he just started by making false appointments saying lm comming to see you but he never showed up and never gave any reasonable reason why he did so.all of a sudden he started to ignore me he didnt call or txt or even replying my emails or txts without any reason whatsoever l just ignored him. afterb about 3-4months he just called from nowhere saying he was checking on me we talked and he was blaming me saying l was the who started to ignore him and he also blamed me on almost every thing that caused this silence as if lm the one who wronged him. latter on he said he wants to marry me and we planned to meet inorder for us to discus the issue but unfortunately he didnt show up we never talked from there what realy is going on Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2011): He really isn't your boyfriend- not speaking for 3-4 months isn't what couples do. This is a break up, by him taking the cowards way out.
Sorry to break it to you but it sounds like the reason he came back that one time was to manipulate you and try to get one last night of passion out of you. Men will say anything to get their end away, even propose marraige!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2011): I think you should dump him, he thinks he has you whenever he wants you, and whenever he doesn't want you he just ignores you.
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