New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Boyfriend ignored me for 3-4 months then wanted to discuss marriage!

Tagged as: Troubled relationships<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (19 July 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2011)
A female Zimbabwe age 36-40, anonymous writes:

l was in love with my boy friend for 8months and everything was well but he just started by making false appointments saying lm comming to see you but he never showed up and never gave any reasonable reason why he did so.all of a sudden he started to ignore me he didnt call or txt or even replying my emails or txts without any reason whatsoever l just ignored him. afterb about 3-4months he just called from nowhere saying he was checking on me we talked and he was blaming me saying l was the who started to ignore him and he also blamed me on almost every thing that caused this silence as if lm the one who wronged him. latter on he said he wants to marry me and we planned to meet inorder for us to discus the issue but unfortunately he didnt show up we never talked from there

what realy is going on

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2011):

He really isn't your boyfriend- not speaking for 3-4 months isn't what couples do. This is a break up, by him taking the cowards way out.

Sorry to break it to you but it sounds like the reason he came back that one time was to manipulate you and try to get one last night of passion out of you. Men will say anything to get their end away, even propose marraige!

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2011):

I think you should dump him, he thinks he has you whenever he wants you, and whenever he doesn't want you he just ignores you.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Boyfriend ignored me for 3-4 months then wanted to discuss marriage!"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0311617000115803!