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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey,The other week this guy I've known for about 6 months contacted me on Facebook and asked if I wanted to hang with him. I said okay since he was pretty nice and I'd like to get to know him better but then he started asking me to have sex with him because he wanted to lose his virginity to me. I thought it was weird so I said no and he apologized, then when we hung out a couple days later he apologized again but one thing led to another and we ended up having sex. We hung out again the day after and the same thing happened. While we were talking he said he wasn't really interested in relationships because he's not that kind of guy, and he caught his last girlfriend cheating on him. I haven't spoken to him again since then since I don't think he actually likes me and was only interested in sex. The thing is, it's really nagging me that he's not talking to me and I don't know why. I've seen him be active on Facebook because he's posting status updates and everything.I don't know why it's bothering me so much, so I just wanted to ask for advice on what to do now, and how I can get over it? I want to talk to him and try and make friends because he's a nice guy and I like him in a friendly way but I really can't tell if the feeling is mutual or not.Thanks in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2011): Thanks for your answers guys. I'd still like to be his friend and I don't think he was lying to me since he was terrible in bed :P I'll just ignore him and see if he contacts me. If not then oh well!
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (19 July 2011):
 Im so sorry this happened to you.
But he is NOT a nice guy. He is a player and a user and was only after one thing. He doesnt want to be your friend and I very much doubt that he was a virgin either.
He is probably just very good with words.
Move on from this idiot, think about you.
YOU deserve better.
Hugs x
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reader, Star xxx +, writes (19 July 2011):
 Hi
Seriously.... a nice guy does not use someone in that way, you gave him what he wanted and i think because you gave into him so quickly he has lost interest because there is no challenge now.
My suggestion would be to move on and forget about him, i dont think there is much point in chasing this one.
Just be careful next time and wait a while any "nice guy" will respect you and your wishes.
Take care xx
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