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*indredspirit
writes:I'm in love with my ex boyfriend who wants us to get back together. He cheated on me with Hookers but says he is still in love with me. I have met a new guy and he is lovely but my heart still longs for my ex. Can I truely trust my ex. again
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 July 2011):
 Don't trust your ex. And take it slow with the new guy to see how things go. If you develop feelings for the new guy the old feelings for the ex might go away.
However, give yourself enough time between relationships. Are you ready to try again with a new man, or is it better to wait a while longer?
Whatever you do, do not trust your ex. You can't trust a man who has cheated on you, ever.
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reader, Orbiter  +, writes (19 July 2011):
In all honesty I'd say don't go back to your ex. He may say he loves you and I bet he said that in the relationship too but the fact is he cheated on you and if he truly loved and respected you back then he wouldn't of done it. So what makes you think he won't do it again? Actions speak louder than words. A lot of cheaters will cheat more than once so personally I don't think it's worth the risk.
Also have a rethink on this new guy, he may be nice but it doesn't sound like you're all that into him if you're really contemplating leaving him for your ex. No point in leading him on if you know you two don't have a future together.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 July 2011):
 Only you can tell. This is where you have to take chances.
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