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writes:my boyfriend is ignoring me he actually went to the extent of blocking me from his facebook account he doesnt call nor txt nor email he is just silent we didnt break up he turn up when he make an appointment to see me and after all this im also reluctant to ask him i just ignore and im not talking to him also we last talked sometime end of May 2011 when he had promised to come and see me but he didnt come . i did not ask and he did not say anything and up to now no one has talked to anyone i still have a part of me which still love him but i dont know what to do i feel i have lost trust in himi dont know how i can talk to himwhat should i dois this normal no reason whatsoever why this is happening im tired please help
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (19 July 2011):
 he is not your boyfriend anymore, you WILL get over him when you accept the fact that he has left you and will not be back. he gave you no 'closure' by not telling you he was leaving, but sometimes you just have to make your own closure.
to get over someone it is useful to make a list i think of all the bad, sneaky, dishonest things they have done to you. write it all down, and read it back to yourself, keep it and read it again whenever you feel like you are missing him.
i will give you something to start your list ...
1. left me without even having the care to tell me, ran away like a cowardly sneak
now you continue the list.
i know you feel sad now but it is not all bad. in leaving you he has left you free to meet someone in the future who will love and respect you. enjoy the opportunity. see your friends, plan fun things with them that you will look forward to doing, look after yourself physically and this will help you mentally
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2011): I'm so sorry hun. I am in the same situation. I was seeing a guy for two months, and he also stopped contacting me in May. I am still really hurt over it.redathena is right. when someone does that, it shows a lack of respect, and it is cowardly. we don't deserve to be treated like that.i kept trying to call and text the guy i was seeing at first, but got no response. i stopped trying to contact him about four weeks ago. I didn't contact him that much though after he stopped contacting me.people like that aren't worth wasting time on. life is too short to bother with those people.
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (19 July 2011):
 I would say he is no longer your bf. He took a cowardly way out.
Ignore him and move on to someone who has more respect for you.
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