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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. Lately we've been arguing a lot and I feel like he doesn't love me the way that he did in the beginning of the relationship. He's been avoiding me for 2 weeks straight now. he hasn't called me or even bothered texting me. I'm afraid he doesn't want me anymore. But I love him and I want to be with him forever but I'm scared he doesn't feel the same way anymore. I even think he's seeing someone else. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): There might be someone else, or he might be just getting some space.
I was my fiance's first long term relationship (he'd had many, MANY relationships before me but none that lasted longer than 3 months) and on our 3rd year together he randomly ignored me for 3 weeks straight. He was with a mutual friend the whole time so I know there was no other girl.. And this is a friend who would tell me if something was up. He came back lovely as ever and said he had just gotten overwhelmed and confused and insecure and needed space to clear his head. A few months later, he proposed.
Wishing you the best of luck :(
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reader, carenna  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 I was in the same situation a few weeks ago, I was in a great relationship and suddenly everything change and I was going crazy because I dint know what was going on!! I asked him several times but he said he was tired, or busy or nothing at all even I started thinking that it was all in my imagination until I confront him... so wht do I want to say with this???
Ask him! directly!! Maybe it's nothing and he just wanted space or maybe it is something else, but instead of wondering and thinking a lot of things, ask him, stop hurting yourself!! Is not fair that someone does that to you and let me tell you that when you talk with him, he will not understand what you are feeling
Stop thinking if there is another woman in the picture, it's better to know the truth right know, even if it hurts, that be another 2 weeks, thinking and wondering what it is going on
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 September 2010):
 Ask him "who is she?" I know it's scary, but you need to know the truth before making a decision. The part I'm weary about, and thinking there is a possibility of there being someone else, is how he's ignored you for two weeks. You need to ask him what's going on, and he needs to man up and tell you the truth. You don't need to be left hanging like this. I know it hurts, but being confused about what's really going on with him hurts worse than knowing the truth. At lease with that, you know which way to go.
I hope everything works out for you. Take care.
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