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36-40,
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writes:i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. we have 2 small kids together... in the past 7 years he has never been a really good boyfriend.. but in the past 2 years he has become very abusive and controlling. every day i get yelled at, threatened, treated like a dog. he even tells me that he wants 2 bash my head in. he calls me names and leaves me alone 99% of the time to take care of our 2 kids. there have been a few times that i would be asleep and he would throw ice water on me at 2 or 3 am. i really wish i could leave but he has made it so that i have not worked in 7 years and i have nothing, everything is in his name. i cant stand to be here with him anymore, please please i need some advice....... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): This is domestic abuse. Find a woman's shelter and get some advice. There are lots of women who have been through this that are likely to be there to help you.
Leave this A-hole, and if required sue him for child support.
You can find a job, and replace things... undoing the massive damage that he's doing to your children is going to be the big thing. Get you and them out of there so that they have a decent chance to NOT learn his (and your) pattern of behavior, and force them to repeat it later in life.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 For the sake of your kids, please get out.
You say that everything is in his name, but there are ways to escape this. Please get some good legal advice or talk to someone from the United Way, many attorneys don't charge a consultaton fee.
You MUST GET OUT of this situation.
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