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writes:He's not divorced yet, said they're in separate rooms for 4 years. I honestly am too! Same house, separate rooms for 4 years, not married though. We've known each other for 35 years, and have been talking and seeing each other for 9 months. He's selling his house, retired, sold his business, all to move 5 hours away to be with me. Last week his wife read all his emails, started emailing me, saying she can't believe it's "me", she knew me too. She's saying he's seeing others too, and they're trying to work out their marriage. He slowed down on calls to me, yet sent flowers to my job. When he does call, says she's trying to steer me away. And nothing is true that she says. He still loves me, and is still moving out here to be with me. He's loved me all these years. I just don't know what to think. If they're breaking up, why is she so upset? She hasn't moved out yet. I feel like he's hiding our relationship from her. I don't call him, she cloned his phone. He has a secret phone he uses to call me when it's convenient for him. Sometimes days go by. Am I a fool to even be doing this? Most people separate when it's over. My situation is a bit different. He knows were done, and I'm moving on soon. There's no divorce, even though we've lived together for 13 years. I moved out for a year, and came back as friends until I could afford it better, which I can now. I love this guy I've known for 35 years. I know he's my soulmate and worth waiting for, but somethings not right. Or maybe I'm not being patient. Should I just wait to see what happens?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 September 2010):
Get the feeling this married man lied to you? I do. I think he's lied to you, his wife and a lot of other women. I also think he's lying about leaving his wife, hence the lesser calls.
You'd been had.
End the affair with this married man. You've hurt his wife, which is pretty bad, and you're now allowing yourself to be played. The only one laughing here is this guy.
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