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female
age
41-50,
*hatshouldido
writes:Hi, I have a long distance relationship, my last boyfriend cheated on me, so im very insecure and suffer with jealousy, and now my boyfriend has gone very cold on me, we use to talk about the future etc, but thats all stopped, its kind of formal talk now, i told him i was sorry and the last couple of weeks ive been as good as gold, but i think he could be seeing someone else, but i can't ask him, as he would hit the roof, my reasons for this, is that hes blocked me from facebook, hes going out a lot more now, than he use too, also when were talking on skype, hes kind of talking to someone esle too i feel, as he laughs, and im not even said anything, and funny things, what should i do.......im stuck, i love this man, but i think ive pushed him away now, and dont think i will get him back as it was.................
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reader, dijoyful +, writes (4 September 2010):
 Hi, i sorry this doen't look to good, i think he might be talking to someone else even if thats as far as its gone for now. Some men like to line up the next one before finishing with their present. Do you want to carry on feeling like this, you can talk to him without accussing him of cheating, tell him you've noticed the distance between you and that your missing how things were, make a time with him to talk, remember if you are not confrountational, calm and listen to what he has to say there still maybe a chance to save the relationship. If it is to late, learn for this experiance, work on youself so your next relationship is heathy and happy and not blighted by jealousy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): If you ask him and he hits the roof,then he probably is. Dont you think he would behave different if he wanted you? How would you behave if it was the other way round? Why not move on?
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