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Archived questions from: 4 March, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I want out, but guilt kills me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

4 March 2010 (M) - I seriously need help... Ive been with my girlfriend for just over a year now and she is great.. Shes always there for me, she doesnt treat me bad, and we never have sexual problems or even huge arguments.. And yet I don't want her.. I didnt wa...

He's avoiding my questions and the situation involved.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts/Uncles, You are prob sick of me by now but here goes!! My husband has admitted that his texts to his 'other woman' (sex texting colleague) did have allusions to sex in them (well quel surprise, would never have guessed!!!). I...

Its been 4 years and he has married and I'm engaged. A psychic told me that he still has feelings for me and I believe her, is this a chance to have him back in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - My ex and I have been seperated for the Better part of the last four years. We had an off and on relationship for about three years, but always seemed to find ourselves back together. We has a pretty messy break up to say the least. He ended it over ...

He's emotionally blackmailing me to stay with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend online for over 2 years. He's obsessive, over protective and very controlling. i finally got over it. i ended the relationship- he put himself in hospital for a week. I don't love him, in fact i almost hate him for this, ...

Where did his libido go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - I have been invisible for my bf for months, we barely have sex. His dad died 2 months ago, do you think that can affect his sexual libido? I am not going to tell him anything, he is too lost in his own world. Imagine that I work all day long, when I ...

Why isn't he taking my problem into consideration?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - Hi! I am currently in a one year relationship with my boyfriend. We always fight about drinking alcohol,because I have done stuff in the past that is not right,I never cheated on him but Ive said mean things. So, we recently just got into a huge ...

Why do I love him so?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i dated for about a year and i loved him unconditionally infact i still do. In the second month of our relationship i found out that his ex girlfriend was pregnant with his child. He assured me that this happend before we go ...

I told him I wanted a divorce because of his porn use, and he refused. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - I need some advice on my marriage. This month i will be married for 4years, we have 2 children 2 1/2 and 10 years. I have caught my husband plenty of times where he will sit and watch porn on the internet and also masturbate to it and every now and ...

My life has always been controlled by my parents and now my husband. How can I break free?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - I grew up with very strict parents, I was not allowed to go out with friends or be independent. My day ran on a schedule, from school to various music, dance, and etiquette lessons. My parents determined how I would dress, wear my hair, and who I ...

I'm worried about my friend. Why does she keep going back to him after all he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (M) - Alright, a friend of mine is being in relationship for almost 5 years. My friend, who is a she, is turning 19 this year and her bf is 22. Their relationship isn't going smooth. Her bf was being unfaithful to her once in the past but she has forgiven ...

Had an affair with a married man and now I cant stop thinking about him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - Will I ever win my ex back? Its very complicated and sorry but a bit long! I had a bit of a fling with a guy I'd known for a while last summer, it only lasted 2 mths and he had seperated from his wife. After the fling ended he went home to try...

She's too clingy! How can I tell her this relationship is NOT what I want?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (M) - I've just started going out with this girl. I met her out one night and after about a week we got together and now we're seeing each other. Apparently she's never had a boyfriend before and because of this she is super grippy!!! I mean the 2 day o...

I can't stand her jealousy...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

4 March 2010 (?) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a half, and we are happy. Unfortunately, there is one thing that I really can't stand, and that is her jealousy. I'm 20 years old and have been offered to be a tutor for my college, and here is ...

Where is the line between being high maintenance and wanting a reasonable amount of attention without any distractions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - I don't really know what to think. My boyfriend moved to another state so we talk on skype and phone as often as possible. However I feel like sometimes he takes me for granted because he knows I love him to pieces, just little things like getting ...

My wife wasn't honest about her sexual past and now I hate her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

4 March 2010 (M) - Hi, I and my wife came in contact 5 years ago. At that time she had a boyfriend. It was a strange relationship; we both got attracted towards each other. In the beginning she was treating me only as a friend. Finally she broke up with that boy and ...

Does he want me back or does he just want sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - 2 days ago me and my ex (who lives 200 miles away) spent 4 hours on the phone chatting and I brought up the fact I want him back but he told me he had a gf. He told me he loved me but don't want to break this girls heart because he be no better than ...

She is making our friendship hard work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - recently i have just started a relationship with this guy and things have been going so great these days that i feel as though i am on cloud nine. However my best friend who is a few years younger than me has changed dramatically. And it is starting ...

My boyfriend creates anger and friction for all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - Hi ive been with my bf for 3 years. During the first year he had lots of contact with his ex wife. They have 4 children together and they split up a year before i met him because she cheated on him. We had the children to stay every other weekend ...

Crunch time for my husband, either see a doctor or I'll see a lawyer

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - So I would like to ask what should I do about my terrible sex life, 2 years ago I caught my husband watching porn and wanking behind my back, apparently this had gone on for years of our married life in secret and led to him not wanting to have sex ...

I have a friend who is going off the rails

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (M) - Hi, I have a friend. She is in the kind of relationship where guys treat their girls like trash and girls still wish to continue with them. She always comes to me asking for help and sometimes just tells me things like "he doesn't call me/pick ...

How do I deal with my boyfriend of one month enlisting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - well i have been going out with my boyfriend for a month now and i am the happiest girl alive totally smitten. a few days ago he broke it to me that he was going into the army... i wasnt to happy when i heard that its not the distance that bo...

I want to divorce my husband and take my son abroad

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - I want to divorce my husband and move abroad with my son. I know my husband and family will object strongly. Is there any way it is possible? I cant face the possiblity of leaving my son behind. My son is very close to his dad, and i am not doing ...

I think she is cheating while I am at work

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

4 March 2010 (M) - Hi , I have been engaged to my girlfriend for 8 months and am getting married next year. I work in a job which means 3 nights a week i have to work overnight and my fiancee still lives with our parents although we are moving into our first house ...

He is nasty and vindictive and uses our son as a weapon

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - Hi there. I was wondering if anyone could help? 10 years ago, my life was great. I was studying to be a lawyer, I had bought my own house, I had great friends and was pretty happy. Some friends were working overseas and I decided it would be fun ...

My boyfriend doesn't appreciate the lifestyle I have given him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - My (51 year old) Virgo boyfriend of 3 years with an IQ and EQ below par came out and said; he'd prefer his next partner to have a job! I felt this was a criticism of my contribution and worth as we are set to going our separate ways. I know it was ...

We are FWB but the more time I give him the more he wants

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - A very close male friend of mine and I were FWB for about a year and a half. In the past month, we've suddenly gone from keeping it strictly physical to him asking me to spend whole days with him, me spending several hours with him at a time for 2-3 ...

I am new to sex and troubled by his requests

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - Hi Guys, I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months, and we decided to have sex recently. I was a virgin until then, but completely happy to give myself to him. The only problem is, I guess I'm still a little nervous or shy. ...

I am pregnant, but everything he does offends me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - Hi, I am in an uncomfortable situation. I am currently in a relationship, we've been together since october of 2009 and the problem is that my feelings for him are slowing fading. When we met things were cool, you know the whole "honeym...

We really hit it off, but now he doesn't have time to date me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - I went on two dates with a guy I met on a dating site 2 weeks ago (two nights in a row). We instantly hit it off and the dates were great - great chemistry, no awkwardness and he seems to be everything I am looking for in a guy :) He seemed really ...

My friend's step mother is being abused and she and I have been kissing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (M) - Okay this is a hard and kind of confussing situation for me and will take some time to explain... About 5 to 6 months ago i started to hang out with a good friend of mine alit more over at his house(just to let you know im 19). Right off the bat i ...

She asked if she could take a male friend to the prom and I said no

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been dating for two months... we're kind of new and not in the comfort zone yet but I think we're getting there, well today we kind of got in this argument or more like she mad at me. The situation is she ask if she can go to...

He hasn't wanted sex for two days, what's wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - i havent had sex with my boyfriend in 2 days and he doesnt seem intreseted usually hes all over me so i feel like im failing:( i dont no what to do now help !...

I want to let my teacher know I am in love with him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

4 March 2010 (?) - I'm really into my floral teacher from my 4th period class,and I'm actually planning at some point,to get him to notice me. Ok first, I understand that it's illegal, not because I'm underage, cause I'm 19 and he's 25, but because its against ...

We had sex and promised not to tell anybody but he told his friend ........

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - So I have a problem, I'm 14 and and my bf is 16. We had sex and k kind of regret doing it. We agreed and promised eachother that we wouldn't tell anyone that we had sex cause I didn't want to get called and slut and stuff. I found out today that he ...

My girlfriend wont indulge me in my fetishes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (M) - My Girlfriend of three months just recently expressed her absolute displeasure and unwillingness to engauge with my fettish for wearing overalls, before and sometimes during sex. Initially she expressed willingness to explore my preference, yet the ...

Hugging my best friend does not mean I'm cheating, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - I need help. My boyfriend has now thought im cheating on him. He think it because im hugging my best friend. He told my bff that he was going to f**k him up. and hes calling him gay. what should i do......

Moved in with him, together a year, he wants a break, have nowhere to go to give him space, don't want to lose him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i will be celebrating our one year anniversary in about a week, maybe. basically i'm from mass, he's from nh, we met through a mutual friend i met in college last winter. we started dating months after little sleepovers, parties,...

Past has made me insecure and I need help to overcome this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

4 March 2010 (F) - Someone please tell me how to overcome my insecurity issues! This is so stupid! Most of the guys I dated in the past left me without as much as a phone call. Usually they'd stop calling or not make further plans to go out. Therefore I soon...