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writes:Me and my girlfriend been dating for two months... we're kind of new and not in the comfort zone yet but I think we're getting there, well today we kind of got in this argument or more like she mad at me.The situation is she ask if she can go to the prom if a guy friend ask her to the prom... and I told her no she can't... then she said why not, then I told her because it doesn't look right, because she is with me and she going to the prom with a guy. Then she got disappointed in me, but she said it's okay she is not going to go. Then I feel kind of sad and I told her it's because it doesn't seem right, that's the reason why I don't want her to go, and she told me well it's just a friend and I told her but it's a guy? Then she said okay she was just asking... then after a while I got pretty sad... because she ask me that and I feel bad because I love her a lot and I don't know what to do after this...Well she ask me why am I sad? and I didn't answer her, then she told me to cheer up and I say "i'll see" and then she was told me I have too then I told her Okay I will... but she still think I'm mad at her or still sad, but I told her I wasn't and really I wasn't, But she somehow didn't believe me and She got mad at me, an she told me things kind of change... but she didn't tell me what did... but now we're talking again and we're fine just that it's still kinda weird and she still seem like she mad at me...What do I need to do in this situation? Do I just wait? will it evenually get better as time goes by? I don't know anymore anyone please give me hints or tips... Reply to this Question
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reader, Crazy high highschooler +, writes (5 March 2010):
You did the right thing dood i know you probably have trust in her but the guy heck no i wouldnt trust him on my life u know how we are she may think that he just wants to be friends but all guys want one thing except gays no offence to the gays but as i was saying yea maby you should go with her or take her out on a date
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reader, maddiee-maii  +, writes (4 March 2010):
I carnt belive you dont know what is wrong with her, she clearly loves you because she is now not going to the prom - somthing that a girl dreams of all through secondry and only happens once if i was that girl i would think you wouldnt trust me..if she does cheat on u its just proving it wouldnt work sooner rather then later..dont let her not go to the prom because when u want to go somewhere and she says dont go u cant say or please because she will just say well i didnt go to the prom for you
the thing you need to do is grovell - say sorry and say i trust u enough to go to a prom with A FRIEND she said a freind not lover your her boyfriend and u need to trust her u could even buy her a box of chocolates or somthing small dont let this girl not go to her prom its somthing a girl remembers forever ....x
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