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writes:I have been invisible for my bf for months, we barely have sex. His dad died 2 months ago, do you think that can affect his sexual libido? I am not going to tell him anything, he is too lost in his own world. Imagine that I work all day long, when I como home,I ake a shower and in bed I wait for him to do something.He himself talks about how he masturbates when I am working, What does this mean? HELPpls
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reader, Beingblack  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 The fact that he masturbates while you are at work means his libido has not gone anywhere.
Grief affects each person in a different way. I am sure he is missing his father, and looking inwardly more than at the world around him. Losing someone close often leads to feelings of guilt, and regrets about things that happened or didnt happen, things that were said or left unsaid.
While all this is happening, you lie in bed and wait. What are you waiting for? Why don't YOU become the active person, and if you feel like sex, start things off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): Its a compcated thing greaf as he lost his father only 2months ago he might still be greafing and to take his mind of things he might go for something that makes him feel better and if mastubation makes him feel beter then thats what he might do And theres no telling what he thinking about hes like in a dark and lonly place Has he seen anybody to talk about anything maybe it might help. As your his partner your see all the changes in him talk to him be there for him ?
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