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writes:My boyfriend and i dated for about a year and i loved him unconditionally infact i still do. In the second month of our relationship i found out that his ex girlfriend was pregnant with his child. He assured me that this happend before we go together,ofcourse I believed him i mean what reason did i have to doubt him. Then he started treating me like sh*t being rude wanting money all the time not spending time with me anymore etc. .I then found out that the child was conceived while we were together already. He just left me didnt evn call nothing never looked back. Plus he stil owes me money and almost hit me once. I dont know why but i love this man. How do get over him?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 March 2010):
 He did not love you at all and he has totally lost interest .If he loves you , he would not do those things to you.
He is a cheater and he thinks you cheated too.Cheaters always think that way.
He is not the deserving man for you . Give him up and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI forgot to say before but to add insult to injury his mother doesnt want to leave me alone. She is now wanting to be nice to me after she treated me like shit when we were together. I also forgot to mention that he was in jail for three weeks while We were dating & i stood by him because i loved him. I still do but i cant get over the fact that he cheated on me always made negative comments about how i looked my body my hair, accused me of cheating all the time & then just left me. Why did he do this?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (5 March 2010):
 Because true love is unconditional and it asks for nothing back. You get over him by thinking that your love will be invested in a guy who deserves it, and reciprocates it. Not everybody responds to your love. Holding on to your love is not necessary. Let him go. You are not his mother. Even some mothers give up on their children when they become incorrigible. Too bad people choose lies, deceit over pure, honest love.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (5 March 2010):
You have been used and exploited by him and after he found that your usefulness was over, he dumped you .
He was not really in love with you but was only treating you as his meal ticket.
To get over him , try to demonize him and think of all his negative points. How could you love such a man?
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