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writes:Ok there is two problems, the 1st one is Well im with this guy Max now but i am having a hard time trusting him. Not that he lies a lot its just that i just cant buy his story. Anyways, i like him and he says he likes me too much.but i told him that i just came out of a serious relation so nothing now.he agreed to wait but not leave. He wants to stay and i like staying too. He is real sweet but the problem is that i like him i dont love him,but he says he lovs me. So is it fair to stick around though i dont even know if the hopes are going to be real? Im just so confusd. And oh yeah its a vidiual date sort of. He lives on the other side of the world and i've never met him. So i gues thats why i cant trust him.but im waiting to trust him. Ok now the second one is that, there is this another guy who was my old friend. He calls me once and then after that we just hit it off. He is way attractive now.he flirts a lot with me. He says he is total free with me ,never met some one like me before, he thinks about me a lot. And all. But im not even sure if he is joking or flirting or what, so not sure what he is up to. Anyways, So now the problem is that if the 2nd guy too declares that he likes me a lot too. Then what is the choice i've left for me? Whom should i choose max or the 2nd guy. Anyways, i know the 2nd guy from my child hood. We went to junior school together. He lives in the same city as i do. And he is my age.but max has diffrnt case. So now plz plz plz help.. . .
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (14 July 2010):
 Neither, if you have to ask, you don't love either one of them.
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reader, Moon_princess +, writes (14 July 2010):
Moon_princess is verified as being by the original poster of the question Tnx was thinking the same thing. But more close to guy 1 now. I like it with him but he is too far to hold on to. And im not even sure if guy 2 likes me dat way yet,he sends all mixd signs. But tnx anyway :) and ya i just dnt love any of em now i just have a light crush on both
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 July 2010):
If you don't love a guy, don't be with him. Period. Also, if a guy lives on the other side of the world, chances are it won't work out. And to top it off, if you can't trust him you shouldn't be with him either.
So that eliminates Guy 1.
AS for the second guy? Well, he's there, you can trust him, he's your age. Sounds like the better bet to me :). Choose Guy 2.
Guy 1 isn't really an option.
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