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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My new boyfriend and I haven’t seen each other since two weeks. He calls me everyday and says he misses me and he calls me honey and sweetheart. Every time he wants to get together he wants me to come to him. I can’t go to his house because my parents don’t want me to visit him all the time. So I hope he doesn’t leave me from being away for to long. I want to spend time with him but my parents are strict and piss me off. Plus he doesn’t have his license so he has trouble getting anywhere. But when im at the mall near him and ask him to walk up he’s always busy. But he apologized when he didn’t show up and he didn’t want me to leave him because of it. I don’t know what to do? My dad offered to pick him up. I’m sad because I don’t want to lose him. When we don’t talk I feel sad and lost. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, xanthic +, writes (14 July 2010):
 When men are really interested and into you, they'll make an effort, not give you excuses. I can understand if he's busy, but he's clearly unwilling to find a way to visit you. Even when your dad offers to give him a ride he declines, right? This just shows he's not all that serious about the relationship.
He's not going to change as long as things stay the way they are. Back off for a while and see what he does.
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