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writes:so there is this boy that i was getting with and we liked eachother quite alot then we slept together, then he never really contacted me again (i know he used to like me cuz he told people he did) then we seen eachother a few times after an we didnt kiss or nothing but he acted like he still liked me... til the other night i made a complete fool of myself cuz he was sober and i was really drunk, and he annoyed me that night so i started actin like a bit of an idiot an tryin to show off an make him jelous i spose, by sayin who chats me up all the time and stuff so now ive completly ruined it and i dont think he likes me anymore at all :(... but his mate really really likes me its obvious to everyone, he is really nice and kind but i just cant see him in the same way and im bad at rejection and i really really still like this other boy... i wish i liked his mate instead wud save everyone heartache... i just dont know what to do??? i like the other boys so much i think thts why i cant see his mate in that way... what do i do? please help x
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reader, missymisty +, writes (8 May 2012):
missymisty is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOH MY GOD!!! what a complete waste of air that guy was!!! i was just reading back what ive been writing an i cant even believe my eyes!!!! he was a total waste of space an was using me definet!!! i still see him an talk to him but i am now with one of his mates an weve been together nearly two years an were completly in love. we wer havin a baby together which i lost, but we are tryin again :) i hope someone can learn from my story :) an thanks every1 for your support back then xxxx
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reader, missymisty +, writes (15 July 2010):
missymisty is verified as being by the original poster of the question(iloveyhoo) could i just ask what makes you say he does stil like me? what is it that i said that makes you think that? if you could answer this wud be much appreciated :) xx
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reader, missymisty +, writes (14 July 2010):
missymisty is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwel i havent seen him after that night but he never tried anything on which he usually does, cuz we made a habbit out off gettin with eachother alot. but now its different so i just know he dont like me anymore and like you said used me for sex... wouldnt be the first time its happened to me... yes we have both told eachother that we like one another and he has said it to other people and said hes a bit worried what my brother would think... but that was a while ago, i know now he doesnt like me no more its obvious but i wil say sorry for bein an idiot wen i see him... i know what u meen about not being able to force myself to like this other guy so im gonna take your advice and get to know him more an you never know i mite realise i do like him but i dont want to string him along if i realise i dont like him cuz hes a sweet guy and its not fair... o god wat shal i do!! :( thanks for your help :)
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reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (14 July 2010):
 well .. obviously this guy only wanted you for sex maybe. but he still does like you.
but the thing is this other boy, you cant realy make yourself like him, hang around with him more and get to know him. if you dont like him then you dont, you really cant help it.
buut have you tried explainin to this guy that you were drunk and yu dont know what u was chatting about and that you like him ?
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