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*ovestruck44
writes:my girlfriend of a year and a few months is trying to tell me that if i hang out with my friend (that she doesn't like because he doesn't like her) she is going to act single and do whatever she wants. how do i take care of this Reply to this Question
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reader, 1989BABY +, writes (15 July 2010):
 Your welcome.
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reader, lovestruck44 +, writes (15 July 2010):
lovestruck44 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni liked your answer the most 1989baby your exactly right and id never let a girlfriend control my friends. i just wanted some reassurance
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reader, 1989BABY +, writes (15 July 2010):
Sorry to say this but bros BEFORE hoes. A girlfriend shouldnt make you choose her over your friend thats immature. It sounds like she is diva and used to getting her way. Let her do what she wants if she is going to act like that
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): That's blackmail. Hang out with your friend. Friends often last longer than boyfriends and girlfriends anyhow!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): She is being very controlling. I suggest you continue to hang out with your friend. If she decides that is a good reason to act like she is single then she is not girl friend material and you can toss her like yesterday's newspaper.
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reader, xnickx +, writes (14 July 2010):
 hang out with your friend.
If you do, then either she will act single and give you a good reason to get rid of her. She's basically holding you hostage over this issue, which is rather childish. Not to mention she's showing she has no regard for your relationship.
Either that and she's bluffing because she already thinks she has complete control over you and you doing this will bring her back to reality.
Or, if you listen to her and dont hang out with him, then you lose a friend, and are stuck in a relationship where she will hold you hostile like that for everything you do that she doesnt agree with or like.
Make some sacrifices in a relationship, yes. But never sacrifice your friendships that have been and will be there for you in the future.
Nick.
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