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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am really heartbroken, I feel so stupid and hurt that I've let myself feel like this. I really liked this guy at church and I thought he's a Christian he will be different to all the other guys I've fancied before he'll treat me with respect. I was completely wrong. We were friends to begin with and everything was fine then we started flirting and we went out on a date together and things carry on a normal for a couple of months, then all of a sudden he stops talking to me stops texting me. So I just guess maybe he's busy. I turn up to church a couple of Sundays ago to see him with his new girlfriend. I was so hurt I won't let this stop me from going to church but seeing it every Sunday is tearing me apart. I work with him in the Youth Group and the Sunday school and he still ignores me. I just feel so alone and hurt. Really I want him to be happy but I liked him for a very long time. I thought that considering the age difference between us he would have been mature enough to either let me know that he didn't feel as I did or even just to say he had gotten a new girlfriend. I don't know what to do any more, It hurts me so much to see them together and to think of how he treated me. I think I've sort of lost my faith in relationships whether it be friendships or something deeper. I just feel so lost he was such a good friend to me until this happened. Please help me to stop feeling so down and to understand why people do this to each other. I really did feel so strongly for him. I don't know how to cope any more.
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