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female
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36-40,
*aurabrody
writes:hey, i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we have a 14 month old little boy!!...we are currently on a break because i lied to him about money which has got us into debt and he is really angry with me so we are now on a break...i have told him i will get help with my lying because i crnt seem to stop and its not just him its everyone i come into contact with!! so i am booked into the doctor's tomo to get help because i love him and my son so much and i want the family back together...he is now living at his moms and im living at mine!! we have been on a break now for 2 months and its killing me..he has my son every night mon-thurs and all day fri-sun..but i miss my son soo much...is this too much time away from my son?? and im worried this is affecting my child aswell...i actually havent lied to my bf since we split up!! the thing is he doesnt want to be around me no more as he is hurting!! but i recently had an abortion with our child because it wasnt fair that we bring another child into this!! but he helped me thru it but he was only there when i asked him to be!! he never came round without me asking which to me means he didnt care!! im hurting so much after what i have been thru and i feel like he is punishing me too much now!! what shud i do i love him so much and my son!!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 Oh sweetie you've really got yourself into a pickle here. Hey you are going to have to put in the miles here to stop this and don't worry about being away from your little boy cause in the long run you are doing the best for him and your BF. If your BF sees that you are actually taking steps to sort this the anger will start to fade. I completely understand him being angry with you by the way, you have really betrayed his trust. It's going to take him a long time to trust you again and until he does you are going to have to jump through hoops for him to get back on track.
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