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writes:My boyfriend cheated on me towards the end of april while on a night out with his mates. It was just a one night stand, and he told me a few days after it happened. He even went and got a STD/STI test the same week. He seemed really guilty about it, but i just can't stand being in the same room as him for more then a few mins. I've got 7 weeks till i'm due with out first baby, and it's making it impossible for us to be exicted about the baby. As well as this, we haven't kiss, hug, or even held hands since he told me. What should i do?
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reader, Waiting for an angel  +, writes (15 July 2010):
Its hard especially w a baby involved but before you take any decision have a clear mind and tell him he needs to do anything & everything to fix what he messed up. Talk to him about what you feel, want etc goodluck & congrats w the new baby:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): frustration from a sexless period. you are his partner. understand him. use your skills that he won't do it another time.
all the best
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 Yep he messed up big time!! It's actually up to him now to fix this. He needs to be on his very best behaviour now to win you back again. He needs to be at your beck and call. He has to expect that you don't trust him, expect thousands of questions about what he's going to be doing and expect you to be pananoid about who he's hanging out with. He MUST endure this with no complaining and a smile on his face because HE MESSED UP! Show him this answer.
Good luck doll if he's prepared to do all the above for you and come out squeaky clean then he's worth staying with.
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reader, $izZle  +, writes (15 July 2010):
 i feel that what he did was wrong 1st of all when he is with you he shouldn't think of another woman ... further more what you feel is quite natural it is only human to want the man you love to be only yours and not to share him with another woman...that's why you can't stand him its like you are getting disgusted and hurt at the same time ... and the question how could he do that pops up ..zZz well i could be wrong ... but let me ask you 1 thing "what do you want" coz hey this is going to decide your future and the baby too... remember that it is important that you are happy coz if you can't be happy how do you expect the baby to be happy and i feel that environment won't be good for the growth of the child.
why not give it some time go to your relatives place stay with them for a while or at your moms that will clear your mind and that i feel would be a good environment for your child ...did you know that when the child is developing in your belly he/she can feel your feelings and emotions and these things can impact her ... pls do take care of you and your baby good luck :S
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