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*harlottes84
writes:me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8months now and we have a strong relationship. when we first met our sex relationship was great... but now it seems boring we have tried to spice it up a little by having sex in other places as well as trying different possitions but this just doesent seem to help what could we do????
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reader, Flyguymyeye +, writes (13 February 2010):
Not much you can do. Unfortunately biology makes things exciting at the start and then that excitement vanishes.To get it back you would have to be with someone new. It us called the honeymoon period and happens to all relationships.Your relationship will evolve into love and caring, it I'd the natural order and us to do with procreation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): I cant help but wonder something... is sex all you do together?Do you share any interests? how about socialising?The horrible truth is that sex isnt a relationship and cant fix a relationship, you ned to be compatible.So find an activity that you can do together and you will find everything in your relationship will greatly improve
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): try to make sure your relationship isn't only based on sex, try spending a bit less time around each other and get involved in doing other activities seperately. ever hear the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder"? well, abstinence makes the sex much stronger, I'm not suggesting take a break from each other or break up but you're quite young, it could just be that you don't stimulate each other mentally as well as sexually. your diet and lots of other external forces can effect your libido and worrying about it will only make it worse, just have fun and enjoy yourselves, tease each other and then back off a little bit and don't live in each others pockets, you'll probably want each other more then and it can be better.
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reader, _Katy_Did_  +, writes (13 February 2010):
 I don't have much advice since I'm going through the exact same thing. It's not that it's boring exactly...You just don't want to as much. So just don't. Wait it out until you feel like it and don't force the situation...Otherwise it will just be some kind of obligation.
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