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writes:hey there, i need some helpi think i could be the worst possible girlfriend ever, alls i do is worry about my bf hurting me, by keeping things from me or cheating on me...he has an ex girlfriend who lives 2 hours away, where he use to live, and on his phone next to her name she is the only one with a pic. i dont even have one next to mine. and he texts her and back in august he came back from being up there for a week and i read one of his myspace mess. which i know is bad well she sent a mess saying i really wanted to kiss you, and he replied i wanted to kiss you too, yea that was 6 months ago and back then we were dating for only a month but we have been off and on since jan of last year, and when they dated it was in jr. high off and on a lot! for 2 years cause i guess she cheated on him a lot and they always faught, but i still just think something fishy is happening behind my back, its just a feeling i have...i dont know what to do i mean i wanna trust him and not worry so much and just tell myself if something bad happens to us and its his fault then he isnt worth it, but its easier said then done. i wanna be the girl who just goes out and has fun in our relationship and just be out going...but i cant cuz im always worrying about the what if's in life. so what should i do about my worrying, and thoughts? how can i just be happy and have fun and not smother him anymore with my worrys and thoughts? thank you much everyone!
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reader, el Lori +, writes (13 February 2010):
 Keep busy like finding a hobby, go out with your friends or just go out on your own. You can't make yourself sick and miss out what's going on by worrying all the time. If he cheats, he cheats. You have no control over what he will do or not. Just enjoy the time you have together and if he does something on the side, it will come out. Because whenever somebody lies and cheats it will come out to bite them in the tush. best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2010): if he's said he wanted to kiss her then my opinion is youre 100% right for not trusting him, although i guess you should thank for small mercys that he didnt. if he was mine i'd ask him outright if he wanted to kiss her and if he wants you or her. tell him you trust and love him but its been playing on your mind an you wanted to be honest wit him. hope tht helped xxx
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