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writes:Comments please. I have been with my partner,living together for nearly 6 years.2 years ago i found him on an internet dating site,i spoke to a few of the ladies concerned he eventually gave up the ghost, as we say in the UK,apologised and we moved on. We struggled for a while but got along ok.I thought he was at it again as he works away a few days a week,however to my suprise he arrived home on valentines with a beautiful engagement ring and a proposal.As a girl, i am wearing the ring whilst i think about a yes or no. After all we have been through is this good?can a leopard change his spot's?Has any one been through this and come out the other end with a smile? Reply to this Question
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reader, scifi_aaron +, writes (20 February 2009):
I'm from the UK and never heard that phrase, anyway. If you are asking the question of yes or no then you aren't ready, you only say yes when you are totally certain beyond even thinking about it as you will know there is no need to. He may have gave it to you because he wants to show you that he is serious to avoid the internet dating stuff, but then how do you know he is serious unless he explains it.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (20 February 2009):
 Had he met any of the ladies on the dating site or was he just using it as a way of chatting to girls. I understand you have trust issues with him and I think you should talk to him about it, after all if you are going to get married you really need to get used to being open and honest about everything otherwise it just won't work.
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