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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My problem is i cannot seem to find a nice or decent boyfriend.i really want a guy i can settle into a relationship with for a while now, i have done a lot of dating (i know im still quite young but i have been with quite a few guys) (please dont think im a slut)well most of the guys i have been with have been really horrible dicks tbh!!!there were a couple of nice ones who i'll always remember but it didnt work out for particular reasonsi've never been in a serious relationship the longest one lasted four months but i would really like to, my friends just laugh because they think i wouldnt be able to last in a relationship but i do just want to be with that one special guy now, the only problem is, is that its hard to find him, most of the guys i meet just seem to be after one thing and thats SEX! and i have nothing against that however i just want to be a little more than sex, maybe get treated once in a while have a cuddle and be able to talk to him and its not just the typical fu*k and chuck u kind of guys either... all of them do, they'll pretend they want to get to know me and if i dont put out they dont want to know me after! its really got me into hating guys more than trying to find one now, i know not all guys are like this but the ones i seem to meet make me feel like this :(i have never normally been like this but recently i just feel that single life is starting to suck, i dont know wether its just the winter blues but its really getting me down now im normally the party girl out with all my mates hitting the clubs but now i just feel like sitting in the house with my mug of hot chocolate wishing i had that special guy to cuddle up to :S xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): Personally i find that slightly older men are more mature,caring and not just after sex.These younger guys want to sleep with as many girls as they can to impress their mates.
I suppose it doesnt happen like that in every case but it worked for me anyway.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 December 2009):
Well you say that you'll dated a fair bit but I'm guessing you've been dating teenage boys. Are you really surprised they've been sex obsessed idiots?
Keep trying and DO NOT sleep with them until you have dated them for a few weeks.
You need to see them during the day and have fun with them, talk and get to know each other, find a connection.
You can find a guy, you just have to be a bit more select.
Good Luck!! xx
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