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writes:So, my husband and I have been married for over 3 years now. His brother has been dating the same girl for 2 years. My husband used to tell everyone how much he hated his brother's girlfriend b/c of a lot of her personality traits and characteristics. Whenever we see her, he always says mean things to her about her habits, and usually had to be told to leave her alone. Well, for the past 2 months, he is always asking about her, when does she get home from work, etc. When we see her, he tells her she needs to have some fun, have a drink sometime, b/c she has a new baby and doesn't get out much, except to work. I was sitting right there, I have a toddler and work too, and I never get to hang out with anyone other than family, while my husband does often. Why can't I get a break? Why does he offer her a time to get a break? And, he set up a little get together for her and some other family members when he knew I was going to be at work, and so was her boyfriend, his brother! Sorry if I am not making sense, but I am really stressed out. He used to hate her, now is always teasing her, complimenting her, I always catch him looking at her, then he will quickly look at me to see if I caught him, showing off for her. Is he just being nice to her for his brother's sake, or does he like her, and is afraid to tell me? Any advice will be appreciated. Thanks a lot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): celiaa.. U make it sound so easy..Im in the same situation, but my partners, brothers girlfriend lives with us!... i confronted my boyfriend about it, luckily it was all in my head. But now its just akward to be around her.. Especially when my bf's around..But if you don't.. You'll do your head in overanalysing everything he does when shes in the room..It's a lose/lose situation..You may be different though bb.. We sound a lot alike though...xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): first of all you deserve a break and you are allowed one. put this man straight find out the truth and go to any extent to do it. dont let him push you to one side. you find out what is really going on and confront him. the way you make it sound it does look like something mayb be happening but dont jump to any conclusions incase you are wrong. good luck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2009): It sounds like there is something is going on, especially the looks he gives her.
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