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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Confused by attention!Im happily married for 6 years and working. I was initially working on a project with a colleague in a different location. Later I moved to a new office location. Since then, this ex-colleague has been chatting with me and gradually started flirting with me. Initially I took it as a joke and even enjoyed the attention he gave. But it seemed to get out of hand and he proposed for a one nite stand. I made it clear that I wasnt interested and he backed off.Later again he started chatting with me. And this time i responded in a positive manner. I actually enjoy his attention and dont knw how to deal with it. He asks me out for dinner and offers to drop me home. I did accept his drops home and once went out for dinner. But nothing has happened further. I find myslf hugely attracted to him. Infact I myslef initiate the chats and smses with him now a days. I want to get him out of my head as I dont want to jeopardize my marriage. Please suggest how to stop this!
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reader, amazonlady  +, writes (22 December 2009):
totally agree with 'marriedlady's' advice above.
If you feel you're lacking from a bit of attention from your husband, then work on that and suggest going out to dinner with him or doing something together. Perhaps spice up your life with your HUSBAND, not someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): Sorry, I have to do a little woman bashing here. The mere fact that you are asking this question is a slap in your husband's face. Why don't you try and be a better more loyal wife to the man who loves you. I'm sure your husband treats you well and loves you very much, yet you can't be happy? Nothing is ever good enough, I swear.. I'd divorce you for even continuing to speak to a man who has proposed a one night stand! ridiculous!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): i can promise you that if you dont stop already you are going to find yourself in divorce court. you will wake up someday and wonder why you did it...and it will sicken you. its your choice. totally your choice. but take it from a woman who has seen a lot of life you are making a lousy trade off.
the thing about these attachments is that these guys know the right moves, the right words, and they have not responsibilities were your relationship is concerned. you dont have to pick up their dirty socks, smell their farts or any of the other not so great parts of marriage. so they are free to give you pretty words, rides, dinners, etc. the problem is that even if you divorce your husband and get with this guy...say you marry him....all of a sudden, you are back to bills, socks and farts. and it starts all over again. it sounds too simple but trust me ive seen this one over and over and over again. run forrest run. p.s. and dont go tell your husband....really bad idea. just stop. mal
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