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*exydivah
writes:O.k.. When i was younger about 15 i was dating this guy. We dated for a while but never had sex.. we broke up when i moved and i didn't see or hear from him again until seven years later. i just recently ran into him again and we have been seeing each other for about five months now. In the beginning he was honest with me, he told me he was talking to someone and i was talking to someone else and when asked about me and him making it official he always said he didn't wanna make it official on any b.s..about a month and a half later i broke it off with my ex and he told me the person whom i thought he was talking to he wasn't talking to her anymore everything was going well until he moved. He told me he was homeless and was gonna be living with his friends. This is when his behavior changed he went from calling everyday to texting me to not hearing from him in days...every time i asked him is there another woman he made it every way possible to prove me wrong even by taking me to almost all his hangout spots so i choose to stay around.. and even when deep deep down i knew there was another person i would try to break things off with him he would continue to call me and leave sad messages on my phone...well soon after that i had received a phone call to a woman who said she was his girlfriend and he was living with her.... at the time he was with me and he refused to get on the phone and he lied and lied...when i told him he had to go he didn't wanna leave he told me some of the truth but not all..he told me she was an older lady and that he was only staying with her because she was taking care of him after that i told him because i still care to not call me as often but he still called everyday then i told him again not to call at all because i found out he went back with her but he still does.... now i never ever gave him money and every time we saw each other we didn't always have sex and he tells me he loves me... so what should i do?? did he really love me or was this all sum kind of joke????
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (30 August 2009):
 DTMFA. (Dump The Mother F***er Already.) He is a liar and a cheater, who is running a game on you so he can have his cake and eat it too. If he loved you, truly loved you, he would never have lied like that and for so long.
Please don't allow him to use and abuse your heart this way. Kick him to the curb and don't return his calls. In the future never settle for half a relationship, and next time trust your instincts.
Good luck.
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents +, writes (30 August 2009):
 Ok, here are my two cents: Run like the wind.
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