A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey guys, my girlfriend and I have been dating for a long time and we have a long distance relationship for now. We are seriously committed to this relationship and I want it to last forever. Because frankly I love her more than I have anyone or anything. The thing that has been eating me up inside is that she gets upset at me very often. We talked about our issues and well her house is like an open house for people. Everyday around 11 til early in the morning like 5-8 am people, guys and girls are in her garage partying and playing beer pong and doing all sorts of things just hanging out. There are guys going by her room and talking to her and she stays out there til up to 7 am sometimes. It bothers me terribly, we make plans often but usually fall through because she goes out and does things. She has many guy friends and they text her and call her. She says the guys are like family to her and she doesn't want to stop hanging around them. She always stays up late and does things late, I will be lucky to spend any time with her at all during the weekend. We stopped talking as much as we did early in the few months of our relationship and now whenever we do talk is arguing about that. We were supposed to hang out today, Saturday I asked her to and she swore to me but it's now 11pm and she has to come home from being out to be with me. I don't know what to do I am scared that if this keeps going on we won't be together anymore. I also don't hang around girls out of respect for her but will hang out with my guy friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): You cant stop her from being with her guy friends. If you really love her you should be able 2 trust her 2 be around other guys. Next time ur with her sit down and talk 2 her calmly about how ur feeling and were ur relationship is going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): I think you should just tell her if she keeps hangin out wit other guys and not you then its over...... then she can chose n if she really loves you she will make more of an effort to hang out wit you and if she dont you dont need her cause it seems like she dont care n you could find someone who does care and wants to be with you
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