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writes:Help everyoneIm so messed up at the moment i dumped my ex as my ex gf the mother of my child told me to so we could get back together, which i dumped my then gf, but my thenmother of my child wh said we could start again if i got rid of her well it didnt happen and this was late last year, Anyway when we split i carried on sleeping with the girl i dumped and i still talk on the phone most days to her and have once again started sleeping with her again but my problam is im seeing someone whos now pregnent with my 3rd child, I even rang the girl i dumped and texted her when i was on holiday with my gfwhats happening to me i still see the girl i dumped most days and have stayed good friends but recently im thinking that the reason why im still sleeping with her is i have feelings still for her but dont realise it untill now,The girl i dumped is the only girl i didnt cheat on but i say to her that i love my girlfriend and even said it to my gf when she was stood next to meDoes people think i still have feelings for her or im a slime bag and need to stop strewing hr along
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): I think you need to sort out your priorities. You need to commit to the one woman you love & want to be with the most, and stop going around making innocent babies with every female you talk to! I'm not trying to judge you, but go back & read your post 10 times and see if you're helping yourself by getting in these situations with these women. And yes, stop stringing that woman along if you know you don't really want to be with her.
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reader, Mr. Adviser  +, writes (16 August 2009):
 Hey, Einstein. Heres a hint: Just pick one. And make sure its the one you want AND the one who wants you. And once you pick one, keep her. And don't look back for the love of god. Bouncing between two girls like that is nothing but trouble and heartache. I don't understand why people feel the need to commit to someone, only to dump them, and come back when they feel like it. This defeats the purpose of being in a relationship! Also if you have a gf and your sleeping with this other girl, that is wrong. Yes, you are a slime bag. For many reasons. So stop. Get your sh*t together man. I bet your a pretty good guy at heart, and my words kinda sting. But guess what pal its people who make those kind of actions that make this world a f*cked up place. Its time to grow up, and settle down. Otherwise you are gonna have some confused ass kids. Oh daddy is here today, but tomorrow hes not. No. Pick one girl, stay there, make it constant so your kids will know what is what. Go to the one who you have the most feelings for, the one who treats you the best, the one who loves you most, and the one who you can see best in your future. I have faith in you. Every person is capable of being good. Final answer: Don't strew anyone along your side. Take your girl of choice, and hold her tight. Don't be a slimebag, because deep down you know your better than that my friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): Woah... I'm sorry I'm really confused between all the girlfriends and ex-girlfriends and baby mama's going on here. First I think perhaps you need to go and buy a package of condoms and learn how to use them. Second maybe things would be less confusing if you could try not sleeping with everything that moves, not cheating and impregnating all these women... grow up a little, get a grip on what it means to be a responsible adult with children to support, and then try spending time with ONE woman in a monogamous committed relationship. THEN you won't have to worry about being a slimebag or stringing anyone along.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): You are all slimebags. All of you are just interested in themselves. Your ex knew it wasnt working when you both parted and you were with someone else. She didnt care of the other you both have hurt from not getting on. And the one you are now going out to see doesnt question the relationship. She's try hard to get you back at all costs. You may think you have two women here, but both of them are girls.
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