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*nnareece
writes:Dear allanother man in my life, another weird situation. I met this guy back in May, we started seeing each other, almost every day and things were going well. He had just come out of a long relationship, so he was holding back and not saying too much, but he was into me, texting me every day etc. At the end of June, he was asked by his work to got to Germany so he left. We kept in touch, texting and chatting online almost every day. He had planned to come back for holidays and he was telling me about the things we'd do when he was back. Not as a couple kind of things, more sexual I would say. A week before he was due back he disappeared. He called the first day he was here and we went out. He started saying that he disappeared because he had a big raw at work, he packed his things and left the job and that now he's back here. It was all well but a bit awkward, cause it was a long time we hadn't see each other. But it was ok. I stayed at his and the next day he said something like next time we should do this. The following day I text him to ask if he was going away with his brother like he had said. He said yes. Then I sent him a text saying, oh and when am i going to see you now that you are leaving again? He never text me back. That was five days ago. He is still away on holiday. I don't understand, what's going on. The obvious thing would have been that when he decided to come back, he didn't want a relationship and that's why he disappeared. But why bother take me out on his first day and explain why he had done so? I don't get it!! Help!!
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (15 October 2009):
 Sounds like you hit the nail on the head and he isn't ready for a relationship or just doesn't see you as a potential girlfriend. You said you stayed over at his and that your chat had been very sexual. I hate to say it but maybe he was just after sex.
Forget him and move on, he doesn't deserve any more of your precious time.
You will eventually meet someone who respects you and treats you well...accept nothing less xxx
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