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female
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36-40,
*acky
writes:I need some help, my fiance and i have been together for just over 2 years now and we have a baby but he is not the bioloical father and has adopted my child, the problems started about 6 months ago he and his friend from work are just complete troulble together and i am getting really fed up. They stay after work drinking untill like 2 sometimes 4 in the morning he is obsessed with his work and his drinking buddy thats all he ever talks about, i have no idea what is going on, he keeps making promises to me nd then breaks his promises. he has started lieing to me about where he is or what he is doing or who he is with, i confront him about having an afair and he always denies it, so i dont know what to think anymore, what is so special about his friend, coz if he has a problem or if he is excited about something or if something good or bad happened he runs to his friend first i am feeling neglected, and unloved and he cant see anything wrong with what he is doing he is setting me back into a depression and i cant have childs life get turned upside down because i feel depressed or suicidle because of him.Please i am desperate for your help or adviceRegardsTracey
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (3 September 2007):
 You need to sit down and have a serious talk with him and let him know how you're feeling. Let him know you feel unloved and neglected and if things don't change they he's gone. I get the feeling you are terrified of going it alone, you want someone to be your baby's father but is this really the kind of role model you want in your child's life? Look how depressed he's making you feel!
Is the house you're living in his or did he move in with you? Get back to me here so that I can finish answering your question.
Eve
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