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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I can't believe it! My ex fiancé is on a rebound with a stupid girl from another far away country. Now I can see he's sending her romantic comments on his Myspace page. Things he never did with me. He is being very caring with her sending her virtual roses, "princess" comments, and he is being nothing like he used to be with me. It's just like I imagined when he felt lonely without me he just found some idiot radom girl and of course long distance relationship are magical and perfect and eveything is great. That will only outshine all the negative feelings he might have had of our relationship. It's just plain inmature, unreal. I'm so regretful of all the intimate things I shared with him. I feel tempted to erase his myspace account and block all his friends since I know his password. I think maybe he's trying to make me jealous because I told him like ten days ago that I never checked his myspace account wich was true at that time. He never had me on his top friends on the stupid myspace page but now he is doing all he can so he would make this girl feel special. I think I hate him. I can't tell this to anyone because my family thinks I forgotten him a long time ago and wouldn't understand and my "friends" don't care either. So if you want to play my friend for five minutes I will appreciate it very much. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): Hi Love,
I really think that looking on this is doing your head in, And not doing you any good at all.. I would avoid it at all costs no matter what your feeling which is hurt and its turning into anger love. If you do what you say you want to do then he will no without a shadow of a doubt no that you do look now even if you didnt before, and deleting all his stuff will really add fuel to the fire as you may feel better for a short period of time but that will pass and you will still want to know more, And on and on it will go. I am saying this as a friend as I would tell my friends the same and take them out and party all night just to keep them away from the computor.
I know you said your friends dont care but surely if they are good mates they would help out by just getting you out and helping you get back the person you lost which is you, after what you have been through and are going through hun.
So many things can eat you away after a breakup the texting finger gets out of control and everything seems 100 times more irritating than it normally would, But in time hunny it will pass and if you can be that strong person and ignore the crap then you will be ten times stronger when you feel more positive. Ive never felt revenge to be possitive as it never really gets us anywere only more angry if it doesnt have the desired affect. Hunny I no where your coming from you just want to scream and to have no one to talk to must be really frustrating, But as a friend dont go down that road think of you and try and find anything to do other than this I hope I helped in some way ive seen it before and its just so easy to press delete and you cant take it back. TAKE CARE OF YOU LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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